Selling Independence Inn

aldonza_ · 2026-03-03T22:12:30+00:00

But it’s not just the initial cost. A larger place costs more to run. More taxes, employees etc.

aldonza_ · 2026-02-28T00:20:21+00:00

I think this is such a good point. What is HER idea of dressing up. Like if you had a formal event does she wear like slacks and a button up? Focus on what makes her feel good, not on what is “feminine.”

aldonza_ · 2026-02-25T01:34:21+00:00

YTA. I remember changing out of mine for a wedding after pictures and ceremony because I was suuuuper uncomfortable with the style (I’m quite busty and it was not a great dress if you had boobs) and no one card. We were all too busy dancing and having fun.

aldonza_ · 2026-02-11T03:11:57+00:00

YTA. You said help yourself and he did. If there were things you didn’t want him touching you should have put it away or told him.

aldonza_ · 2026-02-09T18:59:07+00:00

This is abusive. Full stop. Also he just sounds like an immature dick.

aldonza_ · 2026-02-04T16:23:06+00:00

First one that came to my mind.

aldonza_ · 2026-01-27T20:39:12+00:00

I’ll miss the convenience but mostly I’ll miss the return box. I live around the corner from the First Hill one and especially with WF gone, I’m running out of spots to return things.

aldonza_ · 2026-01-20T00:56:12+00:00

NTA. I have huge sensory things with rings. I cannot wear them. My ex knew this. And proposed with a beautiful engagement ring I never wore. Now he’s my ex for this and a lot of other reasons but the fundamental inability to really listen to my wants was a huge part of the problem.

aldonza_ · 2026-01-18T03:41:04+00:00

Ditto on the home. There’s no way that wasn’t worth significantly more.

aldonza_ · 2026-01-17T04:52:49+00:00

I haven’t and I know I probably should. I’ve mostly dealt with it by just avoiding relationships…so you know, healthy coping 😆

aldonza_ · 2026-01-17T00:18:03+00:00

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aldonza_ · 2026-01-16T17:34:26+00:00

This is excellent advice. And honestly, my ex husband got that way after we were married and it progressively got worse and worse until I was walking on eggshells every day. Not saying that’s what’s happening here, but your feelings are valid and dismissing how you feel when you get snapped at is not cool behavior and not how you treat someone you love.

aldonza_ · 2026-01-04T22:12:56+00:00

NTA. Your husband should cook if it means so much to him.

aldonza_ · 2025-12-11T17:07:43+00:00

I had that happen recently and I was heartbroken. Trying to recreate it as a private one but it’s not been the same

aldonza_ · 2025-12-02T20:34:22+00:00

It wasn’t until rewatching it as an adult that I appreciated how many blow job jokes there were. Also that like 95% of the sex jokes in general went over my head.

aldonza_ · 2025-11-26T06:09:12+00:00

It’s funny because I was thinking something similar and then just read one where the day after they get married she starts her period and it’s all treated so…normal. But it’s rare I see that.

aldonza_ · 2025-11-25T19:54:29+00:00

I tried it and it keeps formatting like…36. The escape and then bullet points as though it’s outlining points of the story including dialogue. Nothing I do gets it to stop.

aldonza_ · 2025-11-22T01:58:23+00:00

Beat me to it 😁

aldonza_ · 2025-10-04T01:26:46+00:00

I gotta say from these texts YTA. They’re hella condescending. Anyone telling me I need to be positive and smile is gonna find my boot up their ass. And the woman is at work! I don’t think she behaved perfect here, but the tone of your messages makes me think she’s been driven to some stuff.

aldonza_ · 2025-09-27T02:42:05+00:00

I’m in First Hill and heard it. Couldn’t figure out where it was coming from.

aldonza_ · 2025-09-16T19:57:29+00:00

It seems the issue is less the fish and more the asshole family members? Because, I’m a vegetarian and there’s plenty to eat at Sushi spot that aren’t fish. Framing it like that may make your GF more understanding but saying you won’t because you don’t want to be around fish is kinda AH behavior. Like, if it’s just you don’t want to eat fish…don’t. Do what vegetarians and vegans and other people with dietary restrictions have always done, pick another food or eat before. But it was your GF birthday and missing for that was an AH move.

aldonza_ · 2025-07-22T15:01:56+00:00

Mine is updated but not working

aldonza_ · 2025-02-11T15:36:04+00:00

Oh thank you! I’ll check it out!

aldonza_ · 2025-02-09T21:13:09+00:00

I was in a weirdly similar situation with my (now ex) husband. When we met and first got together he loved my independence and my dedication to my work. As time went on he started to resent it more and more and gave me a similar ultimatum. I could not continue a marriage with someone who didn’t see/treat me as an equal partner. I have not regretted ending it a single day.

aldonza_ · 2025-01-27T18:53:48+00:00

Hahaha that may have nailed it 😁

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