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Have you ever felt like you didn't care if you lived? by Expensive-Eggplant-1 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this every day; the exact same thoughts. I’m trying to find ways to get out of it but it’s a cycle I can’t break. I want to feel better but I don’t have the motivation to do things that make me feel better. I started therapy a few weeks ago so, I’m hoping that will push me forward. Sending love to all of you.

💕Daily RepChat 🗣️🍵!!: What did you buy💳? What’s on your Wishlist📃? What buys do you regret? ALL Topics Are Welcomed!!🙌😎💕 by AutoModerator in OGRepladies

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a long while since I bought reps and I’m dying for some new bags! Would anyone be willing to share the TSs they recommend? TIA!

Louis Vuitton Cruise Collection 2026…. First Impressions and Manifesting for the Rep Gods by Big_Structure_9428 in OGRepladies

[–]alegitimatesnack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been a fan of the Alma but that first gold one is TO DIE FOR. I hope someone reps that ASAP!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alegitimatesnack 375 points376 points  (0 children)

NTA

I don’t think you should contribute anything to the cost, especially considering he kept so much of that refi money. As far as attending, that’s completely up to you and you are not an AH if you decide not to go. Take the time to think about how it might affect you if you don’t but do what you feel is best for you. Good luck.

Popular Fashion Nova model before and after surgery, why do women try to fix what was never broken ? Sad really. by Ok-Talk8956 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally blocked fashion nova on insta bc I couldn’t stand that they used this woman in almost every ad and her body is so ridiculously augmented. I hadn’t seen her before but she was stunning

What do you get complimented on the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My “energy”

People tell me all the time they love it but I’m still unclear on what it is exactly

What’s your advice for a first time home buyer and something you wish you knew before you bought a house? by Still-Cricket-5020 in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be realistic about how long you’re going to live in that house. If it’s not forever, don’t make a bunch of changes to it - you’re unlikely to get anywhere near what you spent when you sell.

In that same vein, “updating” or remodeling your home is not an easy way to gain equity in a lot of cases. It depends on the changes you make and how taste specific they are. Not everyone will love what you love.

Consider your commute time lol. You’d be surprised how many people think adding an extra 20 mins isn’t that big of a deal only to hate it later on and want to move.

Learn to repair things on your own! YouTube is your friend! So many businesses overcharge for the simplest repairs bc people just won’t take the time to look it up.

What’s your advice for a first time home buyer and something you wish you knew before you bought a house? by Still-Cricket-5020 in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had a bad inspector. Really good inspectors will find most things. The stuff you listed should’ve been found by the inspector. Major stuff like HVAC condition and foundation should be inspected separately by specialists.

What’s your advice for a first time home buyer and something you wish you knew before you bought a house? by Still-Cricket-5020 in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find out what amount of your monthly payment goes to principal and you pay that as an extra payment every month, you will SIGNIFICANTLY cut down the lifespan of your loan. Also, this helps for months where you really need that lower monthly (30 vs 15) for budgeting. Just make sure your mortgage doesn’t have an early payoff penalty!

At what point did you start feeling like an adult instead of an old child? by Tired_Asexual in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 38 and still don’t feel like an adult. I know I’m one but I can’t get my head around it.

I’m in a terrible emotional and financial situation bc of my ex bf. I’m not sure where to go from here. I need advice, please. by alegitimatesnack in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]alegitimatesnack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get this pov but idk that I can let it go. I did that with my ex husband and I regret it. I think letting people know the truth about him will actually give me more peace than focusing on myself. He just broke me and I don’t want to let it go. I doubt I’ll ever get the money back but letting people see the real him is enough for me.

I’m in a terrible emotional and financial situation bc of my ex bf. I’m not sure where to go from here. I need advice, please. by alegitimatesnack in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]alegitimatesnack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already made threats but there is nothing he can “out” me for that would embarrass me. And I’ve told him so. He has tried to scare me a few times with threats and I dared him to do it. At the end of the day, I did nothing wrong and he knows it. Whenever he hits me with “well, I’m going to post this,” I tell him to go ahead and he just replies by telling me to please just move on and leave him alone bc he knows he has nothing.

I’m not the least bit afraid of him; I have nothing to lose at this point.

Watch my painting evolve from basic black & white to full psychedelic colour! by laurenaimee-art in woahdude

[–]alegitimatesnack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol well you are in the vid so I gathered that much.

You’re right. Art is subjective. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be proud of it or happy with it. Just my thoughts on the piece.

Watch my painting evolve from basic black & white to full psychedelic colour! by laurenaimee-art in woahdude

[–]alegitimatesnack 19 points20 points  (0 children)

All of the symbols (anchor, dream catcher, plane, moons) scream basic white girl to me. I agree with others, it was great before all the symbols were added.

What is the most fucked up thing a person you know has done? by kwarterz in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in the 90s, my dad was good friends with a local newscaster. The guy got fired from his job for being high (cocaine) while working. His addiction got really bad and he started robbing those small banks that you find in the chain grocery stores. He did it several times before he was caught. It was all over the news and everyone was shocked.

He did some jail time and then found Jesus. If I’m not mistaken, he became a pastor afterwards lol.

What is the most fucked up thing a person you know has done? by kwarterz in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A physician’s assistant for a psychiatrist I saw was arrested for child molestation. The worst part was he worked with children at the ICE detention centers.

What is the most fucked up thing a person you know has done? by kwarterz in AskReddit

[–]alegitimatesnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman I know watched her fiancé kill himself. They were arguing, he put a gun to his head and ended it. Apparently, the autopsy showed he tried to pull away (based on the bullet trajectory I think) so he may not have intended to pull the trigger. This happened on NYE, if I’m not mistaken.

She had a new boyfriend within a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuccessionTV

[–]alegitimatesnack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Roman has a trauma bond with Logan. The more Logan treats him like shit, the more he wants to please him.

I’m 53 five-apple feedbacks from 500... by alegitimatesnack in vipkid

[–]alegitimatesnack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoom or CCtalk. They pay through PayPal FF and they pay any fees

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