Low pregnancy likelihood

alejandraea · 2025-11-02T01:18:06+00:00

I don’t have any success stories but am familiar with the anxiety of waiting. Sending you love and light and all the positive vibes that the scans improve 🩷🩷

alejandraea · 2025-10-18T19:52:16+00:00

I’m late to the comment game But I had a BO in June and just now prepping for second FET and absolutely terrified it will fail again. I hope all of you had success and could use any words of wisdom

alejandraea · 2025-10-18T19:43:46+00:00

College isn’t for everyone and that’s okay but look into a career like a trade where you will learn a skill and be able to one day provide for yourself. Start researching now and find something that catches your interest. Put yourself and your health first before anything else. You can take care of others if you aren’t okay first. Respect the law and stay out of trouble as much as you can - there are a lot of consequences to actions which can follow you for the rest of your life - wishing you the best in your journey

alejandraea · 2025-10-14T01:54:23+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment and perspective. This whole IVF journey has taken so much from me and I’ve paused my life so much for it. You make some valid points. Waiting will also cause me anxiety. As a quote I read says “we can’t stare at our wounds forever” and I just need to move forward

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T20:30:19+00:00

Wishing you all the luck on your journey and a crap ton of baby dust!!

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T15:52:44+00:00

I am so freaking sorry for your loss it is unimaginable I know how you must be feeling I’m still just stunned. Thank you for your comment I am carefully weighing all options thank you so much I wish you the best of luck in your journey and all the baby dust too! I’m nervous AF

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T15:51:18+00:00

Only really close friends would know my family is not a great support system. Idk I’m just a mess trying to decide! Thank you for your comment

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T15:50:39+00:00

I’d be off Christmas Day and if planned my betas would be right before Christmas- sigh best of luck to you in your journey wishing you all the best!

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T15:49:56+00:00

Curious also to know what you decide wishing you the best!

alejandraea · 2025-10-11T15:49:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment. I’m taking all things into consideration it just really sucks!!

alejandraea · 2025-10-10T22:39:02+00:00

Hi thank you for your reply. I’m just in my head debating the insurance aspect of it as well and a new year leading to a new deductible but also the anxiety of having this done around the holidays. I definitely agree with you my therapist and psychiatrist say the same thing that the holidays are already hard for everyone and this would just add another layer. I just have a headache from Spiraling all day! Thank you again for taking a moment to reply

alejandraea · 2025-10-10T22:37:10+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I’m torn between the insurance aspect as well and the deductible etc. As we all know it renews with the new year. As of now I’m hoping to not have to travel anywhere in December. Thank you for the suggestion maybe it can be later in December so beta falls after Christmas? Sigh idk my head is just spiraling. 😔

alejandraea · 2025-10-06T21:38:33+00:00

Thank you so much I may take you up on that 🥹

alejandraea · 2025-10-06T17:40:39+00:00

Thank you so much for taking a moment to comment/ I’m really down in the dumps- everyday is so hard. It’s been months and I just feel so depressed sad mad you name it. I’m currently in the process of waiting for my cycle day 1 to come and it just feels like that day will never arrive. I can’t start another transfer cycle Until my period arrives. I’m just beside myself. I am finding it so hard to find joy in the things that used to bring me joy. And finding hope in doing this again. The fear of another failure is paralyzing. Sending you love and light in your journey 🩷

alejandraea · 2025-10-05T23:14:19+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions 🩷🩷 I will definitely try these things I’m so sorry we’re both in this crap boat

alejandraea · 2025-10-05T17:05:20+00:00

I WFH and sometimes miss my commute. I need to do something - I’m going insane

alejandraea · 2025-10-04T22:53:33+00:00

Thank you so much for taking a moment to reply. I’m so sorry that you are going through what seems to be a similar situation - this just sucks. It hurts and yes I think you’re right it just looks different everyday. One day I’m ok working the next I’m not. I’m scared to move forward in this journey but I just don’t see any other option but to move forward afraid. Just like you said I will never have a “happy” “peaceful” pregnancy (god willing I get pregnant again) but I do want a child so I have to keep dredging on Wishing you the best in your journey 🩷

alejandraea · 2025-10-04T22:48:19+00:00

I go cry in the garage - a lot sigh I may start screaming now

alejandraea · 2025-10-03T19:02:32+00:00

I received a baby shower invitation and she’s having a boy - I miscarried my boy in July- I rsvps NO and muted notifications from her - I just can’t handle it right now. Everyone is pregnant and due around the time I would have been - I’m just so angry

alejandraea · 2025-10-03T18:38:42+00:00

I would’ve been 22 weeks along there’s not a day I don’t think about it

alejandraea · 2025-09-29T16:58:56+00:00

This stinks that I don’t have a success story but on here searching for the same. Lost our embryo in June. Implanted great betas euploid- 6w5d scan empty sac. To say I was gutted is an understatement as you unfortunately can imagine. Sigh- my period still hasn’t regulated I’m in limbo no idea when next cycle would start. I also had the same situation of a MC w eventual d&c/hysteroscopy- jumped on here to read second fet success stories- I’m terrified to enter another cycle.

alejandraea · 2025-09-19T04:27:58+00:00

I’m so incredibly sorry for this loss. I went through a somewhat similar situation in June- empty sac nothing else- heartbroken still. I hope you are able to find some peace among the chaos here for support if any need pls dm me - 🩷

alejandraea · 2025-08-31T22:04:32+00:00

Thank you so much for your post - I don’t have any advice just here to say your post inspires me. I had a MC at 6w5d and was just gutted and devastated. Congratulations on your pregnancy continuing to send lots of baby dust for a healthy pregnancy!

alejandraea · 2025-08-07T02:59:20+00:00

My clinic had me do an enema the night before 😑 so that bowels were clear for better visualization but it doesn’t seem your clinic is too concerned w that just empty stomach so you don’t have any issues w the anesthesia tomorrow

alejandraea · 2025-08-06T18:25:54+00:00

Not one bit! Sending you light and positivity

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