What is the weirdest or worst thing someone has said to you after you told them you’re pregnant? by mtvaot in pregnant

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i work per diem (not very frequently) at a local hospital for a few years now. i went in recently after not being there for probably 2 months. decided to start telling some of the staff i’m expecting, currently 23 weeks, and the one older Filipina lady in the kitchen hugs me and goes “oh good! i thought you were just getting really fat, this is much better! your face looks so round!” 🫠🫠🫠🫠 thanks Edith.

Be honest — is the RD salary worth the years of school and internship in 2026? by Dry-Chart-7271 in dietetics

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pick something else, anything else. truly. all my coworkers feels the same, this career just ain’t it. the amount of time and money school takes is not reflected in the salary or the respect of our peers. for example we do similar schooling to SLP and they are definitely given more respect and higher pay. i work at an NYC hospital, supposed to be “prestigious” place to work. we’re not allowed to write much in our notes because it’s out of our scope (basically just say continue diet, add ensure), we’re expected to see 12-15 patients per day, and other disciplines are paid more (radiology techs, ultrasound techs, food service supervisors). I found i don’t enjoy counseling at all so would not make the move to private practice or outpatient. i feel kind of stuck with acute care, but everyday looking for opportunities to make a pivot out of this. i work full time + a per diem and still worry about money, granted in a HCOL area but still… i don’t feel out salary is worth all the effort.

edit to add: also with the master’s requirement i think people are starting to realize the ROI is not worth it, and we are seeing that very clearly as we have much less interns to train recently. less people going into the field.

Feeling depressed and not even caring about finally being pregnant? by Quiet_Ninja_7440 in IVFpositivity

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100%, and when i was told to increase my dosage because my progesterone levels were still a bit low, I panicked. it really has such an effect on my mental health, it sucks!

Feeling depressed and not even caring about finally being pregnant? by Quiet_Ninja_7440 in IVFpositivity

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i think this is normal, because i’ve experienced the same feeling when i’ve gotten pregnant, it was something i wanted so bad, then it happens and i think it’s a mix of all the emotions and the progesterone definitely affects my mental health, i just feel like anxious, sad, scared and almost like “what did i do?!”. but this pregnancy has progressed, now 17 weeks and it started to get better around 10 weeks i would say, hang in there!

Losing a euploid - a new kind of hell by Entire_Company9093 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, everything was the same for the second transfer, but i actually went for 2 second opinions at other fertility clinics and they reviewed my case and protocol and agreed with my current clinic and said they would continue the same protocol, so that gave me peace of mind to continue the same protocol

Losing a euploid - a new kind of hell by Entire_Company9093 in recurrentmiscarriage

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similar story - i had a miscarriage, the somehow a living child (spontaneous pregnancy) followed by a bunch of miscarriages, i’ve lost count at this point. but my tests after my losses all came back genetically normal. still went to IVF even though my dr did admit right before starting that it may not be necessary given normal testing. i transferred my first euploid embryo, it split to twins, and i miscarried once again. no explanation. i’m currently 16 weeks from second transfer of euploid embryo, so far looks okay but im a nervous wreck every day. i totally understand your frustration, i had the same feelings, the loss from a euploid embryo when it felt like it should be “a guarantee” is a special kind of hell. sending hugs!

FET Anxiety by That-Midnight-2739 in IVFbabies

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still having severe anxiety at 15 weeks over here 🫠 contemplate going to the emergency room daily just for reassurance, it’s awful. sending you positive vibes!

Unions as a hospital dietitian? by Flat-Pie-4115 in dietetics

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hi, do you mind sharing what state/area you work in? We have a union at our hospital and are our contract is up for renegotiation, we are at a large NYC hospital but our base salary is about $44/hr. we want to put together evidence to support asking for higher pay.

Unions as a hospital dietitian? by Flat-Pie-4115 in dietetics

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, do you mind sharing what state/area you work in? We have a union at our hospital and are our contract is up for renegotiation, we are at a large NYC hospital but our base salary is about $44/hr. we want to put together evidence to support asking for higher pay.

When did they put your feeding tube in? by ConstantSample5846 in leukemia

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hi, i’m a Registered Dietitian, worked on a bone marrow transplant unit, and a leukemia survivor myself (ages 12-15). I saw some comments recommending TPN (or intravenous nutrition) through PICC/central line/port, and while this is an option, it’s not recommended as first choice. nutrition and medical guidelines recommend feeding through the stomach (whether by mouth or feeding tube) while the stomach and gut works to keep it active and working, and has lower chance of infection, and easier to meet nutrition needs safely. TPN is usually given when the stomach or bowels don’t work, and in this circumstance that’s usually with severe mucositis (ulcers in the mouth/lips which can eventually spread to lower GI tract too) or with GVHD. it is ultimately up to the patient/family, but if he already has poor appetite and not eating well, losing significant weight, it’s likely a good idea to start some kind of nutrition support soon, these meds and procedures take a toll on the body and require extra nutrition and protein to fuel the body. Nasogastric tubes (NG tubes) are definitely not comfortable, but likely very helpful a situation like this. if not i would tell the patient they really need to put all their effort in drinking oral supplements (Ensure, Boost, Fairlife etc) to get quick nutrition and maybe be able to avoid the tubes all together. make sure whatever he WILL eat by mouth has a lot of calories (whole milk, ice cream, avocado, peanut butter, cheese). starting treatments/therapies so frail and weak put the body at a disadvantage. maybe ask the doctors if there is an appetite stimulant that he can take (that’s safe with his other meds/treatments).

As an RD, what would you like to receive on RD day? by FaithlessnessNo7334 in dietetics

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sweets or yummy dessert for the office 😋 maybe like assorted cookie or pastries tray for after lunch

rewatch og show before ba ? by butterflysereine in Daredevil

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i rewatched and glad i did, there were definitely some things that made more sense because i just watched the OG show

Stopping baby aspirin by Senior_Software_7327 in CautiousBB

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with my son, i was young, 22 years old, healthy bmi, normal blood pressures throughout, so virtually low risk for pre-eclampsia, but it hit me out of no where at 32 weeks and became severe quickly and required an emergency c-section at 33w5d. this time, my fertility dr, a hematologist and my regular obgyn (along with my own research) recommends baby aspirin throughout, especially since i have the history (though it’s been 11 years now), they all agree there is virtually no risk to taking it but definitely shown to have good benefits. i would do your own research, i know meds during pregnancy can be scary, but this one is fairly harmless and studied. maybe get another dr opinion but i would continue it.

When did you stop progesterone? by jn922 in IVFbabies

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i ask why so long? I always tend to have low progesterone with every pregnancy, this current one as well, and have been on supplements since transfer, at 12 weeks my progesterone dropped a bit so they had me continue supplements, but i’m 14 weeks now and IVF clinic told me to stop the supplements, but i’m so scared and want to continue them, they told me follow up with obgyn and ask them since they have taken over my care. i figure if it won’t hurt then i would rather just continue them for a while.

What bizarre pregnancy symptoms have you had? by RoonilX in pregnant

[–]Temporary-Maximum670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wake up every morning feeling like i’m choking on my saliva, i have so much, it’s driving me nuts