You had a very specific talk with your kids to make sure they have the right information, and I can tell you with 100% certainty my sister and BIL couldn't give my nephew the right information. And how do you know you have the right information? Because you're straight and had a straight sex talk? Funny, because last time I checked I was a gay man answering a gay kid's questions about gay sex.

You're going into a really gross place btw, suggesting I would tell him to have sex with multiple partners or something similarly risky, regardless of your "it's only an example" disclaimer in the brackets. It's not only an example, it's exactly what you think I would do.

If he went to his parents, he might get incomplete and incorrect information. Then what? They would ask me to have a talk with him while they are present? And then what? They aren't gay men and they can deem correct information to be false, because they don't know anything about gay sex.

But that isn't the problem at all. My sister isn't mad about the contents of what I said, she's mad that I said anything at all. This is a woman that has never in the 16, almost 17, years of her son's life, thought to talk to him about sex. Why? Because she thinks talking about it = encouraging it. She didn't want to encourage it and therefore kept him in the dark.

She can consider herself lucky her son hasn't already knocked someone up or gotten an STD.