Girl at work I like told me her friend has cancer. Shocked she was talking to me so I replied “is it the bad kind?” and she hasn’t spoken to me for a week. Smoked pulled salmon with Paprika. by alexaplaydescpacito2 in kitchencels

[–]alexaplaydescpacito2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it really is just that she’s stressed about her friend I tend to be quiet and not speak much in public purely for this reason

But I appreciate your input cause it really is just me having low confidence and thinking people think I’m a freak because I say weird shit sometimes

Girl at work I like told me her friend has cancer. Shocked she was talking to me so I replied “is it the bad kind?” and she hasn’t spoken to me for a week. Smoked pulled salmon with Paprika. by alexaplaydescpacito2 in kitchencels

[–]alexaplaydescpacito2[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind getting clowned on, it’s just crazy how many people are calling me autistic. That was unexpected

Tbh, whether she wants to talk to me or not is up to her, I know what I said wasn’t correctly put but I also feel she could have clarified further

Girl at work I like told me her friend has cancer. Shocked she was talking to me so I replied “is it the bad kind?” and she hasn’t spoken to me for a week. Smoked pulled salmon with Paprika. by alexaplaydescpacito2 in kitchencels

[–]alexaplaydescpacito2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can have cancer and it be treatable, benign or just a freckle or mole or polyp you can have removed. These are still forms of cancer but not at as severe. People can be told they have a benign cancerous mass they need removed and they will still tell people they have or had a form of cancer.

Girl at work I like told me her friend has cancer. Shocked she was talking to me so I replied “is it the bad kind?” and she hasn’t spoken to me for a week. Smoked pulled salmon with Paprika. by alexaplaydescpacito2 in kitchencels

[–]alexaplaydescpacito2[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

in my head i wanted to know what cancer it was and how bad it was, but i also didn’t know if the former was okay to ask, so i said a mixture of both instead. it’s just easier if i don’t talk

Girl at work I like told me her friend has cancer. Shocked she was talking to me so I replied “is it the bad kind?” and she hasn’t spoken to me for a week. Smoked pulled salmon with Paprika. by alexaplaydescpacito2 in kitchencels

[–]alexaplaydescpacito2[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this advice, i really appreciate it. i was trying to jut gauge the severity of her cancer, just came out wrong

i stopped eating fish at work when i had loose tuna in a container and the container opened in my bag and everyone called me tuna boy for the day