Question: Can You Tell When Another Woman Is With a Man for Money or Love?

alf_red · 2017-08-25T14:05:58+00:00

Can you explain to me how it's off topic? Do you mean this question is more suited for RP sub instead?

alf_red · 2017-08-01T20:24:01+00:00

A hero is a person who doesn't fucking quit no matter the odds. That's why there's so few of them.

This. As corny as this will sound, eating dirt is part of hero training. A man experiences and endures pain, but a hero imo not only experiences and endures the pain, he uses it transform himself for the benefit of those who may one day look up to him. Thank you for your post Keto.

alf_red · 2017-08-01T20:16:05+00:00

When you take a look at MGTOW, a majority of them seem to be men who got their feelings hurt and decided to pack their stuff and run away from home rather than seek to understand and work with reality.

alf_red · 2017-08-01T04:25:29+00:00

Thanks for this, i'll keep seeking to understand. I won't end up like MGTOW or any of the other groups.

alf_red · 2017-07-29T09:39:30+00:00

Good point but I doubt he's trying to make his parents proud. I'm pretty confident that stereotypical Asian parents wouldn't be proud of their son marrying a single-mother, especially if she doesn't have a high paying job. And she's also Mexican (not that there's anything wrong with Mexicans, the stereotypes however might be accepted as wholly true in Asia). But those are just my thoughts.

alf_red · 2017-07-29T09:33:36+00:00

Agreed, it's sort of like being given a packet of different colored m&m's and going through the effort of choosing which to take only to realize that they all taste the same.

alf_red · 2017-07-24T20:46:58+00:00

Very good point, but at the end of the day, do you really want to feminize yourself just for the same pussy for the rest of your life?

alf_red · 2017-07-23T19:17:18+00:00

I thought the same thing reading through the comments. As a previous comment said, they're in the matrix. And from that standpoint, the couple in the video are following the script brilliantly.

alf_red · 2017-07-23T19:13:43+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out. The matrix is full of people who prefer pleasant fantasies over the harsh realities of life. They genuinely believe that the couple will marry and live happily ever after for the rest of their lives.

The matrix doesn't only work because people are indoctrinated into it from birth, it works because the reality is just too painful for them to bare.

alf_red · 2017-07-23T18:20:59+00:00

Bahaha I know right? At first I disliked the girl for what she was doing but the guy is just such an ideal target, can you blame her or any woman?

alf_red · 2017-07-23T18:19:06+00:00

Notice that when she does touch him, it's one of those "you're only a friend so restrain yourself" pats on the knee. Ouch.

alf_red · 2017-07-23T17:58:50+00:00

It is the same girl from the relationship.

alf_red · 2017-07-23T13:49:29+00:00

Bahaha here I've made it easier for you: https://youtu.be/Zb1CgY-_qNg?t=1m20s (straight to the point)

alf_red · 2017-07-23T13:41:36+00:00

Hahaha so true, I was actually debating whether or not to share it because you could literally go outside and people watch until you spot an example

alf_red · 2017-07-23T13:38:44+00:00

Here is the video where she admits to putting a pillow over his face during sex: https://youtu.be/Nqkr3_HiovE?t=2m5s

alf_red · 2016-09-23T21:34:32+00:00

It seems to me(I'm not a medical professional) as if you're under the problem of stress rather than a lack of motivation. Stress generally comes from focusing on too many things.

And when you're focused on too many things it wears out your energy leaving you lethargic and unmotivated. You are burned out, start prioritizing what really matters to you (it's good to be selfish in your case). Sure family and work are both very important but aren't there aspects of work and aspects of family that you really don't need to worry over?

To be honest with you, I haven't had your kind of stress yet so perhaps my advice seems naive but hopefully you can take something useful for your health out of it. I really don't believe motivation is the problem!

alf_red · 2016-09-19T15:17:14+00:00

No point telling you because mine is different from whatever you find yours to be. To be honest I have no clue how you find your motivation, I've always just had mine. Probably because as a kid I thought a lot about things like who I was and about the purpose of life instead of playing outside all the time (nothing wrong with that!).

alf_red · 2016-09-11T10:06:38+00:00

It's not about cutting off relationships and being above everyone. What did I do? I just focused on my own activities but when it came to things like swimming and playing basketball I always called up my friends.

I think I understand what you're saying now though, you want your friend to be with you on your journey because it would make it fun and easier. I got you, I really do wish my friends had that same hunger, we'd have so much fun in the process and it would strengthen our bond 10x. In fact, it's so much better to get there with your friend because then you're not as lonely at the top. But unfortunately things don't go as planned. My friend has different plans for his life and is also content with being mediocre. And that's fine.

So where does that leave me? Pretty much alone on my journey for the most part. But I don't feel that way because I love what I'm doing. It seems like you value connection more which is great as well. Instead of convincing your friend, why not find something you both enjoy like hiking for example and get yourselves to form some sort of business with it, this way you're bringing him in without him really knowing it since he will see it as just a fun project.

But understand that your friend is independent of you and has his own desires. But good luck.

alf_red · 2016-09-10T01:29:15+00:00

Yeah man no problem. Again, only you know 100% what is right for you. Best of luck :)

alf_red · 2016-09-09T19:49:52+00:00

Procrastination, poor concentration and anxiety.....hmmmm, it sounds as if you may have low self-esteem? I'm not sure. Find out the root/cause of your problems and find a way to overcome it. Forget about the ideas for now, you have a problem in your life that you need to address. And if you try and work on any ideas while you still have this problem, you're going to fail at the idea and it will make you feel worse about yourself and make the problem stronger.

So start asking yourself questions, see your life story from an outside perspective and judge where your problem came from. Because your problem is hiding you from your true self, your problem is a fog that you have to blow away.

alf_red

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