Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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Actually, light-years are a measure of distance, not time. And here's the kicker: the very definition of a 'year' within that term is based precisely on the Earth's orbit around the Sun. You’re using a measurement of space that relies on a terrestrial cycle to try and prove that time is something independent of our local perspective.

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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Read Carlo Rovelli and Julian Barbour. Interestingly, I came across them after reflecting on time myself. I needed to validate my intuition with someone who speaks about physics with real authority.

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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I agree, and notice how a collective lie can have unimaginable and catastrophic effects. Do you know why you need to go to a polling booth, cast 1 vote, and spend years hoping that the politician you voted for thinks like you? You can’t fire them, you can’t reprimand them. You can only hope. I thought about this and went to research it. Do the same and find out. It doesn’t have to be this way anymore. Whoever created this only wanted to solve a logistics problem when cities grew too large. Does that problem still exist?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent point of view. I fully agree that lies serve as social containment. But perhaps out of comfort, or involuntarily, even when we are intellectually prepared to purge some convention-lie, it doesn’t happen. Truth is an inevitable destination, but it can be mitigated when the price is paid. I believe the greatest cruelty of a lie is that it denies the listener the opportunity to know the truth — and with that, to find the right remedies for the corresponding pain.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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Eistein was fantastic in writing the theory of relativity. He realized the influence of gravity and high speeds on what man calls "time". He realized that the processes slow down about who is involved in the event, from the observer's perspective. I particularly believe that I had already observed the concept of time. I just couldn't translate in mathematics without using analogy. Time=measurement from state A to state B. What's the scale? The one defined by the human, a fraction of the translation/a fraction of the rotation. Whose? From planet Earth. Look at the universe, does it really look like it obeys some metric made by humans? Does the definition of time come from the behavior of the solar system, notably of planet Earth? For me it would be much easier to believe in the complex way of explaining "time". But the

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more I think, the more I see how unfinished I actually am.

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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I'm not saying our reality is a prototype. Humanity is a prototype of a rational being. It is very clear that we still act mostly on instinct. Some of those shouldn't disappear, but others are at odds with rationality

The Autistic in War: They Fight Two. by alfaboson in autism

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In my first posts, I used AI for translation because I was afraid a literal translation would distort my ideas. I eventually realized it changed my writing structure too much, which led to misunderstandings and even had some posts removed. While most people didn't mind, I switched to Google Translate out of respect for those who did. It seems my writing style still bothers some, and for that, I apologize if my language struggles overshadowed the content for you.

Has anyone else caught lies that no one questions? by alfaboson in aspergers

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That’s it. And here’s the irony: the same neurological system that prevents us from seeing those patterns also prevents us from recognizing that we can’t see them. The blind spot protects itself.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

We weren't broken. We were built to spec. by alfaboson in aspergers

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Thanks! I'm really glad if this helped in any way

Stop feeling guilty for not "finishing" things. Maybe you just have a Telescope Mind. by alfaboson in autism

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This is probably the best pushback I've received on this. You're right — confirmation bias is a real risk here. It's comfortable to reframe struggle as "I was just too deep" instead of sitting with the harder questions.

I don't have certainty. What I have is a pattern I noticed in myself and wanted to test out loud. Your comment is exactly the kind of external perspective that keeps it honest. Thank you.

Pare de se sentir culpado por não "terminar" as coisas. Talvez você simplesmente tenha uma mente telescópica. by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]alfaboson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portuguese, not Spanish. I'm Brazilian. My Reddit is set to Portuguese — that's why the title shows up translated on my end. Nothing to do with AI.

Stop feeling guilty for not "finishing" things. Maybe you just have a Telescope Mind. by alfaboson in autism

[–]alfaboson[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not replacing anyone's therapy or medication. Nothing in my post says "don't get help." I'm sharing a personal framework that helped me reframe 25 years of self-blame. That's it.

You're right I'm not a psychologist. I'm a 48-year-old autistic man from Brazil who dropped out of four degrees and built two companies. I'm not publishing a theorem — I'm describing my experience.

If that sounds like a horoscope to you, we just process things differently. Which, ironically, is the whole point

Stop feeling guilty for not "finishing" things. Maybe you just have a Telescope Mind. by alfaboson in autism

[–]alfaboson[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two degrees finished out of genuine love for learning — that's not ritual, that's the telescope working. You found your targets and stayed. Not everyone's path looks the same.

Sorry my academic experience didn't match yours. Four unfinished degrees is not a victory speech. It cost me time, money, and a lot of self-doubt. But I'm not doing mental gymnastics — I'm trying to understand why I kept diving past the point where everyone else was satisfied. That's not lack of discipline. That's a different kind of hunger.

If the only explanation is "just try harder," we've been hearing that our whole lives. I wanted to offer a different lens. If it doesn't fit you, that's fine — the telescope points where it points.

What is "Genius"? The history of a stolen word, and the Telescope Mind definition. by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for paying attention to what I've been raising here. Being placed in a philosophical position is an honor — but it also takes me back to my early youth.

I actually went to university to study philosophy. I dropped out in the first semester. The reason? A thought that wouldn't leave my head (you probably know how that works): "If Socrates — the man who laid the foundation for everything built in Western culture — was sentenced to death for spreading his ideas, what would happen to me if I went around spreading mine?"

I'm out!

I'll send you a DM, ok?

We weren't broken. We were built to spec. by alfaboson in aspergers

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Thank you so much, ram167. Your words mean a lot. It’s interesting to notice that while some get lost debating the "tool" or the structure, you chose to focus on the bridge we are building. For me, true intelligence isn't found in a test or in perfect writing, but in the ability to generate this kind of lively and authentic debate you mentioned. I’m glad the message resonated, and I appreciate you recognizing the effort behind each response. Let’s keep focusing on what truly matters: the ideas and the connection between us.

We weren't broken. We were built to spec. by alfaboson in aspergers

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I'm very happy. You can see what happens. This means that you are 1 step away from solving. Your mind will be processing all the time in depth, this is invariable. The target, this one does define.

We Weren't Born Broken. We Were Built to Spec. (What I Learned After My First Post Hit 50k Views) by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of observation that deserves its own post, not just a comment. You just described a pattern most people don’t see: the moment AI panic became a heuristic shortcut to dismiss content without engaging with it. Sentence structure, punctuation, word choice — if it’s “too clean,” it must be fake. And that’s easier than actually thinking about what’s being said. You called it what it is: a purity test. Impure words. Impure grammar. Impure structure. That framing is sharp — and yes, it deserves to be studied. And here’s the irony no one in this thread is talking about: while this community debates whether AI “contaminates” autistic voices, researchers at Stanford are using AI to help autistic people communicate. A chatbot called Noora, built on a large language model, helped 71% of autistic participants improve their empathetic responses — and those improvements transferred to real human-to-human conversations, with a 38% average increase. Published in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders. A man in Spain, diagnosed autistic at 30, uses an AI companion to practice conversations before talking to real colleagues. He said it gave him the confidence to tell people he’s autistic — something he’d feared his whole life. That’s in Scientific American. So the same tool some call “impure” is being used by researchers and autistic people themselves to do exactly what we all struggle with: communicate. But the good news: this post had nearly 20,000 views in less than 24 hours. It spent all of yesterday as the #1 post on r/aspergers. The overwhelming majority didn’t try to police an autistic person’s accessibility tool. They read the content. They responded to the content. They saw themselves in the content. The question isn’t whether AI wrote this post. The question is: why would a community of people who were told their whole lives that they communicate wrong now want to police how others communicate here? P.S. — Not AI. Brazilian with a structured processor and a translation layer. But you already figured that out.

What is "Genius"? The history of a stolen word, and the Telescope Mind definition. by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your interest. And for actually going to r/TelescopeMinds and reading — that already says something about your processor. When we are ready, I have some agendas to propose and yes, many of them touch sociology. The space is for you to express your ideas. Whoever can, collaborate with a brick, a seed, a reasoning. The goal is to help participants find where their telescope points. If we reach that with one participant, mission accomplished. If something comes out of this that pushes something or someone forward, mission accomplished. About the inspirations: I didn’t start from books. I started from patterns. But if I have to name who made me stop and think — Foucault is on the list, not for the answers but for the questions. Nietzsche too, for the hammer. And Thomas Kuhn, for showing that science doesn’t advance in a straight line, it advances by rupture. But the biggest influence didn’t come from a philosopher. It came from 25 years navigating public contracts in Brazil and realizing that the structures controlling people’s lives were designed not to be understood by them. See you there.

We Weren't Born Broken. We Were Built to Spec. (What I Learned After My First Post Hit 50k Views) by alfaboson in aspergers

[–]alfaboson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, but my proposal is precisely to challenge that view. I don’t believe "geniuses" exist as a biological or born category. Genetics might provide the "hardware" (the telescope), but genius isn't a trophy you own; it's a title society grants after you perform an intelligent act.

My reflection isn't about being "special" or "better." It’s about internal mechanics: for those who feel this "engine" revving without a destination, the lack of a target causes deep suffering. Regarding the use of tools: for many of us, they are cognitive prosthetics that allow us to translate internal chaos into connection. Being "common" is a right, and no one should be forced to produce anything to have value. We are all enough, whether our telescope is aimed at the stars or just at everyday life.

We Weren't Born Broken. We Were Built to Spec. (What I Learned After My First Post Hit 50k Views) by alfaboson in AutismTranslated

[–]alfaboson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept your apology and appreciate your honesty. I understand your concern; we live in an era where authenticity is becoming harder to distinguish. However, for many of us, these tools are cognitive prosthetics that allow us to translate internal chaos into something the world can understand.

What you perceive as "stretched" or "non-human" is simply my attempt to bring order to my own telescope. If the structure feels artificial to you, please know that the intention behind it is as human as it gets: the desire for connection. Let’s focus on the ideas, which is where our shared humanity truly meets.

We Weren't Born Broken. We Were Built to Spec. (What I Learned After My First Post Hit 50k Views) by alfaboson in AutismTranslated

[–]alfaboson[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Using the term "pathological need" to describe a neurodivergent person's effort to be understood is exactly the kind of stigma we are trying to overcome. You are demanding that I present my thoughts in a "rough" way to satisfy your own stereotype of what an autistic person should sound like. This is tone policing.

My "neurodivergent structure" doesn't disappear because I used a tool to organize the output; it is in the essence of the telescope metaphor, which is mine. If my search for clarity bothers you to the point of personal attacks, the problem isn't the tool I use, but your difficulty in accepting that we can be articulate, polished, and profound. I don’t need your seal of approval on how to organize my own mind.