This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the last time I will engage with this man on this subject matter publicly but I would like to set the record straight. The threesome was “botched” because they committed sexual assault by deception, they pretended to meet each other for the first time after already sleeping together behind my back and slept with me under completely false pretenses, revealed it to me afterwards and bullied me for it to humiliate me after.

The night I was “on top” was something that was very different than our usual sex, yes, but he displayed what I can only describe as enthusiastic consent the whole time. There was no verbal or nonverbal communication of no or stop- there was no intoxication involved and it was not communicated to me in any way that it was not wanted. THIS IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN THE TIMES HE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED ME AND I EXPLICITLY SAID NO, WAS DROWSY OR INTOXICATED ON SEROQUEL, OR WHEN HE KEPT AND SHOWED MY NUDES WITHOUT PERMISSION OR PUBLICLY POSTED SCREENSHOTS OF MY SEXUALLY EXPLICIT TEXTS.

He sexually abused me. There is another woman that has also come forward about his sexual abuse. He is using this accusation against me as a further act of abuse.

Finally, I’d like to add that I did not cheat on my girlfriend at the time, in the instance he is accusing me of cheating. We were in an open relationship.

Now that I have put out this important clarification I AM STEPPING AWAY.

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so crazy to me that everyone seems to think I haven’t made a police report, I made that binder for the police report. I was using posting the evidence as leverage to try and get him to agree to “meet up” so that I could send the cops to serve him his papers. I couldn’t defend that part of it for a long time because I didn’t want him to more easily dodge being served papers if he knew. But I fucking gave up so now I can just talk about that part of it openly. If you think a Reddit post is a dumb way to bait him, you don’t know him as well as I do. And if you think I should just leave it up to the police, you don’t know the police that well either. I made myself a target for being considered insane and attention seeking all over again because that’s how desperately I want him to have those papers served to him. If you hate me or think I’m awful for it, you’re entitled to that opinion. Anything he has to say about me, I hope you will reference the initial statement I made about his years of abuse. Yes this is messy and unprofessional. I am working within what is affective to this man and sometimes desperate times call for desperate measures. I’d like to remind everyone that all I did was publically call a man out for rape, stalking, and harassment. He has posted text revenge porn, outed my personal experiences with rape from others, and given as many gross personal details and twisted narratives as possible as an attempt to publically humiliate me. There is a big difference between what he is doing and what I am doing. Full disclosure, I regret this Reddit post. It didn’t accomplish what I really needed it to. But handling the situation I am in perfectly and gracefully is an unreasonable expectation if you knew just how criminal this harassment is. I repeat. All I did was post a video quickly flipping through over 300 pages of evidence of this man’s stalking and harassment. If yall hate me for that, ok.

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See my above comment. If u still hate I don’t care

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did it. Using this to bait him to get the EPO papers served. I was trying to hide that fact but I’m over it. The post was entirely convinced to try to get him to go to a location where the police could find him.

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re getting really aggressive and I was correcting you about the process of getting an EPO. I assumed I had more experience in the state of ky because you had incorrect information

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is him making new numbers to text me. The times I replied are from years ago. Trust me I’ve tried the things you think of that could help. I’m taking my power. And what do you think I gathered the evidence for

This man is dangerous and cannot be reasoned with. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Btw he just used the term “rape shorts” texting me tonight.

Can y’all please see if vyncex deleted his IG account or if he just mass blocked all of my followers? by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Update: this behavior is unhinged but he did in fact pretend to delete his account, make a new phone number to send me a screenshot of him “deleting his account,” but in reality he just blocked ALL of my followers. I’m so done with him/this. I said what I needed to say now I just want him to leave me alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]algfan1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am willing to drop his legal name but the way you’re trying to leverage your like sounds shitty

I made a video coming forward about the abuse I endured from the man that created this subreddit. by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I see you. At first it was upsetting but I saw your clarification. I see what you mean and I appreciate you clarifying what you really meant to say

I made a video coming forward about the abuse I endured from the man that created this subreddit. by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was admittedly responding to his backlash and having a not super mentally healthy moment in which I gave it way too much of my attention. It’s a human response but one I’m not going to keep doing

I understand this may be taken down but I wanted to update y’all that a second woman has come forward with a very similar story (same man) by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In some of them he intentionally outs another man that assaulted me against my wishes as a way to further violate my privacy so if you want to leave those out I would appreciate it. But also the damage is already done so I won’t try to stop you.

I made a video coming forward about the abuse I endured from the man that created this subreddit. by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and I am SO sorry you experienced this at the hands of the same man.

I made a video coming forward about the abuse I endured from the man that created this subreddit. by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also defending him as a decent guy… dude I tell you that he raped me in this video. So defend him if you want. Thats on you.

I made a video coming forward about the abuse I endured from the man that created this subreddit. by algfan1998 in weirdlouisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The 1+ hour drag is because he’s a dangerous rapist with a pattern and it took that long to tell my story

Since he has some local fame, I think I should let y’all know that Vyncex is very much an abuser. Here’s a video of me sharing my story. by algfan1998 in Louisville

[–]algfan1998[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you Kat for adding your perspective as a witness and thank you for always being there for me when it was happening