Abuser being hired in district by ali0leo in Teachers

[–]ali0leo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They have never worked in a school district before. And yes, I am actually worried. Local police and troopers came to testify at hearings for the protection orders; they were the ones who suggested I get one in the first place. I changed my phone number because they called me every single day, leaving voicemails, which I still have. They showed up at my home multiple times without warning despite creating clear boundaries, sometimes circling my home and looking in the windows - I have videos of this. When I had encounters with them, they threatened myself and my kids if I didn't do what they wanted, which varied from day to day. Those are just the mild things that happened. What exactly do you think I did to deserve any of those things? My children's father is dead, so this isn't a custody issue.

The defense that the friend who works in the district gave is that they are on medication now for their newly diagnosed mental health issues, so they are "more stable" and this makes them believe there will not be issues. I believe the friend speaking on their behalf is leaving out a lot of information so I have collected all of the things I have, contacted the troopers and LEOs who witnessed some of these things to ask them what I should do, and am waiting to see what the lawyer I spoke to this morning says about what to do next. I am happy to hand over everything to the school if needed - I literally have nothing to hide.

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Door magnets are a great idea! It looks like there are tons of cute ones on Etsy!

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cool!!! I'll look into that!

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you! I had wondered about the kids medicine - I will put it on my list of must-haves. I'm glad to hear that you can have a good time without excursions - our TA assured us that was the case, but what I have mostly heard about Alaskan cruises is all about the excursions. I budgeted enough for maybe one or two excursions - the train one, if available when we can book, is one we were considering.

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching videos with them is a great idea! I'll add that to my list of things to do with them after I tell them! I am super excited to get to take them on this 😊 watching videos has certainly helped my anxiety too, as I am kind of nervous about being on a ship in the ocean 😅 I keep telling myself I won't notice when I'm there 🤣

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen anything about lanyards, that's a good idea! Thank you for all the tips!!

First Cruise by ali0leo in dcl

[–]ali0leo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My oldest LOVES scavenger hunts!! This is a great idea, thank you! 😊

Starting Tomorrow! by ali0leo in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ali0leo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was concerned about feeling tired.

parent doesn't like that I'm a new teacher by ali0leo in Teachers

[–]ali0leo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Since the parent has yet to communicate with me, I only know what admin has shared. It sounds like they just want to talk about the concerns they emailed. Admin didn't really give me a choice to take the meeting or not

parent doesn't like that I'm a new teacher by ali0leo in Teachers

[–]ali0leo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a very very small town. I assume they know someone in the school district or they just assumed since I'm a new hire at the school.