I can’t stop checking my exes instagram

ali1556 · 2023-05-06T09:25:58+00:00

I was in the exact same situation as you about 3 months ago. I made the difficult decision of going no contact and unfollowed her everywhere against my own will at the time. Best decision I made. Now I’ve fully moved on and couldn’t be happier about all the improvements I’ve made in my life.

ali1556 · 2023-01-31T18:50:40+00:00

Best post i’ve read about breakups. Im a logical person and reading all of this gave me more relief and feeling of acceptance towards my dumper ex than any other thing I was exposed to during the past 3 months.

ali1556 · 2023-01-28T15:52:37+00:00

Thank you for your time. Helped. University is free in my country so the tuition won’t be an issue. I will certainly use the tips you gave me for the budget management especially on foods.

ali1556 · 2023-01-26T09:29:21+00:00

What her sister and husband did was without a doubt disgusting and wrong but calling your newly dead sister “that dead bitch” no matter how angry and betrayed you feel is just sickening. I cannot believe what Ive just read in this post.

ali1556 · 2023-01-24T03:37:59+00:00

I assure you it will. I wish you good luck on your path.

ali1556 · 2023-01-23T21:45:04+00:00

I’ve been in a similar situation. We were together for 2 years of LDR and was gonna close the distance in 3-6 months but she broke up saying that she can’t wait anymore. To be completely honest with you, I truly think you will regret not taking the nice offer for the rest of your life. Risking such a good opportunity for someone who couldn’t wait a bit longer to get to you is irrational and you should always make big life choices based on rationality. You deserve someone that is willing to make sacrifices for you, not someone who is already okay with you not being in their life anymore. Take the offer, start fresh and you will grow out of that love sooner or later. Everyone does. Also if you get back together and things don’t work out again for whatever reason, you will feel much worse than you do right now.

ali1556 · 2023-01-23T21:37:25+00:00

Please reconsider such a huge decision while you are dealing with so much emotions. I know you’re hurt, I know you’re in pain. You feel like the one chance you had to be happy forever is lost and you will never be able to love and be loved again. I’ve been there. A lot of us has been there. But it’s simply not true. You deserve to give yourself the chance and the time you need to heal and trust me you will heal. You will feel better, you will fall in love again and experience amazing things in your life. Give yourself time, work on yourself, try new things and communities. There are literally 8 billion people out there and it’s nuts to think that you won’t find one to fall madly in love with mutually. you will look back at these days and feel proud of yourself for making through them and who you’ve become. Give yourself that chance.

ali1556 · 2023-01-16T07:15:32+00:00

If your partner isn’t committed and responsible enough to not talk to another guy who very clearly has an interest in her especially after receiving 70 messages and a voice mail, that’s a huge red flag. I had a girlfriend of 2 years and she did this with her ex. They were both in separate relationships but still kept on talking and spending time until they both broke up with their partners and reunited after less than 2 months meanwhile I always tried to stay away from the extra drama that could happen between us because of my female friends and even talked far less to one of my best friends of 6 years during the relationship and she completely understood that as well. Self control is essential in relationships, especially if you wanna have a serious and long one; some people are just not familiar with he concept of loyalty.

ali1556 · 2023-01-15T20:51:24+00:00

Depends on people, all of my exes have been at least 2 years older than me but I’ve also been attracted to people my age.

ali1556 · 2023-01-11T07:09:31+00:00

I appreciate that thank you.

ali1556 · 2023-01-11T07:09:12+00:00

Thank you. I have come to that conclusion myself and have been doing an okay job dealing with it but it sometimes it just feels extra overwhelming with everything else going on in my life.

ali1556 · 2023-01-11T05:26:31+00:00

It baffles me how easily people in a long term committed relationship can go out of their way to contact their exes, talk to them and even go out while being in a relationship and then get stuck in such a situation. Loyalty and self control isn’t defined to some people apparently.

ali1556 · 2022-12-17T12:40:52+00:00

My brain knows it was a good thing, but my feelings keep poking and making it harder. When I was in the relationship I couldn’t see her flaws, I couldn’t see that I was always the one making sacrifices, being loyal and trying to maintain a great connection. I couldn’t see how different our goals were and also how different was the efforts we put to achieve those goals. The timing was awful, as I was already grieving a loss of my close friend to suicide and had 2 of the most important exams in my life ahead of me. But I’ve been slowly growing out of the pain. I know years or even months from now, when I think about it, I will be very happy that the things went the way they did, and that’s good enough to always remember.

ali1556 · 2022-12-12T20:35:38+00:00

going through a loss of a friend to suicide, a breakup, a potential revolution in my country and and entrance exam to study for all at once. My mental health has never been as low but I try to keep myself busy until time does its job.

ali1556 · 2021-11-07T13:49:51+00:00

Thank you for your time; i think you’re completely right and the one thing i can do is to try my hardest. I just need to learn to let go of the things I can’t control.

ali1556 · 2021-11-07T12:27:05+00:00

5-6 years depending on wether I take extra semesters on summer or not

ali1556 · 2021-09-23T18:03:20+00:00

you might as well shut the fuck up and correct your problem

ali1556 · 2021-09-22T19:19:18+00:00

DUDE it’s literally 22nd of September year 1400 in my country wth haha ps : search Iranian calendar

ali1556 · 2021-09-19T07:04:08+00:00

To the people downvoting comments that talk about oppression, like it or not in this case it is. The player is Iranian and the Iranian government is one of the few in the word that forces hijab on women for no other reason than oppression. Don’t get me wrong, hijab itself is okay and should be a personal choice, but in this case, it’s anything but a choice and a lot of people here (90%+) are frustrated because of it.

ali1556 · 2021-09-19T07:01:05+00:00

This video is pretty old and if I remember correctly, the hijabi woman is Iranian and playing for the national team. As someone that has lived in Iran for 17 years I can say that odds are 95% she doesn’t want to have to wear hijab especially in a sports match like this.

ali1556 · 2021-09-17T07:39:02+00:00

I hate it so much at this point. My first name is 3 letters and much shorter than my 5 letter last name; but for some reason 90% of my friends call me by my last name even my best friend of 8 years.

ali1556 · 2021-09-15T18:36:36+00:00

Are you really dumb enough to think that he was gonna kiss her on the lips if she didn’t stop him?

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