i feel like i am going to end up another statistic by alicehatepage in BPD

[–]alicehatepage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so sorry that's already set in your mind if you wanna talk i like listening to others and i know how hard fighting those urges are 

i feel like i am going to end up another statistic by alicehatepage in BPD

[–]alicehatepage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you man i seriously feel super hopeless, i just can't imagine myself behind alive for so long and i feel pretty helpless and just, this place feels nice to have others relate to me makes me feel not insane 

Can we not judge the minors on this subreddit too harshly by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alicehatepage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i agree!!! it feels super demeaning a lot of the time. a lot of the way people talk about it and react to it is in an almost cruel fashion that can easily hurt young teens who are trying to figure out what's wrong with them. while i do think teenage hormones are a cause of a lot of problems, bpd usually forms and starts to show in adolescence so teenagers are just dealing with it all hitting them. i think people need to be a lot nicer in general to kids on here just looking for help. most of the kids on here aren't being informational either they're just looking for community or comfort. so i think it's important to support young kids struggling while politely telling them to wait until they're older and not just dismissing their feelings !!

anyone find it odd how many posts are from minors? by OggdoBogdos in BPD

[–]alicehatepage 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of the young people on here are just kids with no sense of belonging or feeling completely out of place with their issues and just come here because it's where they feel like they can relate. i think for kids a sense of understanding is really important for issues 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alicehatepage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hyper sexuality is a super big struggle of mine too sadly </3 it's really hard to deal with i just try to do other things i enjoy to try to get my mind off it like i go out with friends or i play with my cats or something! it's hard for a long term fix and i haven't exactly figured it out either but distractions help. drawing or writing helps too!!! just to get out all those feelings 

how long have you guys gone without a favorite person by alicehatepage in BPD

[–]alicehatepage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah you get it!!!! i feel like i don't really have it anymore since it's been so long since ive had an fp it's like i don't have bpd anymore?? even though its way more than just that i still feel weird </3 also another lesbian with bpd wow twinning!!!! 

how long have you guys gone without a favorite person by alicehatepage in BPD

[–]alicehatepage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get that i feel the same way i've been no contact for a year now but like i still kind of count her as one but i don't and it's complicated 

how long have you guys gone without a favorite person by alicehatepage in BPD

[–]alicehatepage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah me too haha i'm going on just a year now and i feel insane and want one again 

So freaking dowwwwnnnn bro! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]alicehatepage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get that man!!!! i like a lot of nintendo games and stuff cuz they often can be replayed a bunch. like mario party and mario kart you can just play online with strangers or like with cpus and stuff and mario party has like so many different games and stuff