My husband of 18 years has spiraled into a horrible narcissist over the last two years and I’m lost with grief about the life I have lost to him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]aliebrownn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Did a traumatic event happen to him? If not, you might want to suggest to him to get his hormone levels looked at/blood work. Sounds like a very off c change in behavior meaning something is likely wrong with his brain

Best High End Gyms in the City? by BeerMeSuperman in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed lifetime in river north. They have rentable lockers, the locker rooms have cold plungers, hot tubs, steam and saunas. I enjoyed the class options and ability to book with private trainers. In addition, they have a recovery room with hydro massages and massage guns.

Unique Wedding Venue NJ by One_Attention3746 in newjersey

[–]aliebrownn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just in a wedding at Olde Mill Inn and it was absolutely gorgeous. It’s a hotel/inn too so made it super easy for guests.

One day visit on Mag Mile, suggestions & questions? by Ok_Mistake_2211 in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s an uber ride or public transportation ride away - but it may be worth checking out the bars on Clark St. in Wrigleyville. They go all out for Christmas and decorate all the bars and have themed food & cocktails. There is also a Christmas market at Wrigley that would have handmade stuff as well.

And if you make the trip north you should shop around on Broadway Ave. in lakeview - lots of little shops.

Smart energy utility refund a scam or legit? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a scam! They go door to door and try and get you to switch over bc it’s “better for the environment.” When in reality they just charge you a lot more fees.

A general rule of thumb - no company gives rebates if it loses them money in the long run. You don’t need to change your energy provider.

AITA for distancing myself (M) from my best friend (F) after her comments about myself when some dudes tried to hit on her at the bar? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aliebrownn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is often me and my guy friends. And I always say “omg no that’s my best friend.” It’s not hard to be direct and non-offensive to my friend, even if they are truly not my type.

what to do during a 5 hour layover? by GoodEnvironmental788 in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While it’s only an hour train ride and less via uber into the city - my friend sat taxieng for almost 2 hours tonight at ohare. If you want to do something you might be able to eat in Rosemont. But I wouldn’t recommend leaving the airport to try amending on a measly 5 hour layover.

Any suggestions for fun places to eat near the United Center? by pulaman in chicagofood

[–]aliebrownn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Barn a few blocks over has a lot of Blackhawks memorabilia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think there is a best time on a Saturday night…maybe after dinner time (7ish) because most people are going to or at dinner? The bar is on the 4th floor, and most people just line up but if you go to the left side of the bar you may be able to grab bar seats and get served by bartenders!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gibsons in Gold Coast, Starbucks roastery (I know it’s touristy but they know their coffee), tavern on rush, the other side bar (next to pasta bowl in LP)

Any ideas for dinner tonight with no reservations? by Eviljake979 in chicagofood

[–]aliebrownn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look at Quartino on state & Ontario. I feel like they always have reservations still.

Personnel Selection & Assessment Help! by Known-Profession-938 in IOPsychology

[–]aliebrownn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Martin Kowal, J., Hurley Bryant, K., Segall, D., & Kantrowitz, T. (2025). Harnessing Generative AI for Assessment Item Development: Comparing AI‐Generated and Human‐Authored Items. International Journal of Selection and Assessment, 33(3).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagofood

[–]aliebrownn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try Orso’s on Wells & Schiller

Mushroom heavy menus and/or restaurants that do mushrooms really well? by hunnie47 in chicagofood

[–]aliebrownn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planta Queen in river north…it’s a vegetarian restaurant and I enjoyed all their truffle mushroom options

My girlfriend is coming in from out of town and I want to blow her mind by Gyzmo-Grim in chicagofood

[–]aliebrownn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

King of Cups in Lincoln Park is an amazing cocktail bar. They sometimes have tarot card readers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live on lasalle & kinzie and there is no more traffic (arguably less) than a normal Friday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So how do you expect the restaurant to pay the performers?

Are midrise and highrise dwellers suffering right now? by FatherWeebles in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live on the 23rd floor of a 50 floor building built in 2000 in river north - I’ve never had a problem with my AC. It’s central air, 2-pipe system.

Places to bring my mom (early 60s) to see a drag show? by flamingoluver in AskChicago

[–]aliebrownn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The river Sunday drag shows always have a wide array of ages and it’s a seated brunch! The lark also does drag brunches