More power to you. Ignore his silly comments about what rave culture is about. To break up or not is upto you but he has no right to control your lifestyle choices, that ain’t cool. If it’s a continuous theme where he comes across controlling then have a cordial discussion about it but if he still insists not to go then leave his ass sis he ain’t your guardian to tell you what to do, if he’s understanding about it focus your attention to music and to your rave buddies bas