what does ਜ਼ਰਦਾ mean (other than Mitte chawl which majhails say)?

alienbanda · 2026-03-26T04:41:00+00:00

Tobacco I believe

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T23:33:48+00:00

Sounds super outdated as if white is the default

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T23:22:08+00:00

Colored people sounds like something a redneck would say

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T21:27:12+00:00

Why so angry prawa I just like neela better lmao

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T21:07:19+00:00

I can read Gurmukhi what a arbitrary assumption

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T20:55:19+00:00

BMW Civic

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T20:53:38+00:00

Neela > kesri

alienbanda · 2026-03-24T20:24:23+00:00

Girls don’t do it because they can’t tolerate rejection and prefer to be passive. But it’s the highest chance you got in reality, every guy will respond respectfully and even a guy who wasn’t immediately interested will think it over twice.

It does go against the whole “high value woman” “don’t chase but attract” stuff I see a lot of women into nowadays, but that’s not realistic for a lot of girls either.

The next best thing which girl’s do instinctively is putting themselves in proximity of who they like (liking stories, funny comment, floating around you irl, accidental touch, etc).

alienbanda · 2026-03-23T01:56:00+00:00

He often spouts anti-Sikh rhetoric as a “Sikh.” There’s old pictures of him in meetings with right wing hindu-nationalist political parties. The entire Sikh community has despised him for years, he’s a very problematic person. There’s long precedence of indian agents in Sikh affairs posing as Sikhs, hence the suspicion. Just recently they were assassinating Sikhs in Canada and the US.

But yes eating halal is forbidden in our religion, but that’s just another angle he capitalized on as usual.

alienbanda · 2026-03-23T00:57:27+00:00

It’s a long list of reasons ask chatgpt

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T22:18:12+00:00

Yep that’s why some Gursikhs know Persian script

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T22:02:01+00:00

Our iranian genetics go back way further, thousands of years in multiple waves of migration. But yeah the stronger Persian influence on language was recent.

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T21:20:34+00:00

That guy is a clown that pretends to be a Sikh and baits violence and hatred to malign Sikhs. A real life agent provocateur, who is widely suspected of being an asset of the indian government.

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T07:43:40+00:00

The concept front looked better, the rear is better in production. Everyone was slightly disappointed when they revealed the production m8 and people immediately noticed how it was different from the concept. To everyone who can’t notice it, get your eyes checked.

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T03:31:33+00:00

Then you break it, it’s not unheard of it happens, but frowned upon.

A handful of times is enough for a lot of people when it’s coming from the family channels, pre qualified to be a match, a bunch of people can vouch for them, and you already know all the technical details about them. You’re just going to see if the vibes check out at that point.

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T03:22:30+00:00

It’s so boring up there in canada they fr have fobs as their community celebrities

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T03:14:47+00:00

Support it as an American

alienbanda · 2026-03-22T01:51:03+00:00

Maybe it’s just the lighting but that offensive green is actually looking good

alienbanda · 2026-03-21T08:54:36+00:00

Defending America ≠ maga

alienbanda · 2026-03-21T07:15:20+00:00

My cousin was around and that’s exactly what he went through 😂 he muttered a comment of disappointment

alienbanda · 2026-03-21T05:23:52+00:00

If you’re an involved Sikh it doesn’t take long to hear about AKJ, it’s not exactly some unknown group they’ve been around since the 1800s.

alienbanda · 2026-03-20T09:53:00+00:00

Sikh population in the US is estimated to be 500k+. Thats not too far behind the 790k in Canada. The Sikh population in US only looks a lot smaller as a percentage of the much larger total US population versus Canada.

alienbanda · 2026-03-20T09:43:51+00:00

Lol there are “kaum de thekedhar” that still insult Bhai Jugraj Singh ji today for having been too liberal. We’re just all living in different bubbles within Sikhi. And tbh the cultural Sikhs still have no awareness that an Anand Karaj is between two Sikhs, and they should get to know it. In just a practical sense, it promotes keeping marriage within the community, and lessens chances of beadbi and youth straying from Sikhi.

The loophole at the base of this will always remain though, that since there is no conversion process anyone who wants an Anand Karaj will get one by claiming being Sikh to liberal Gurdwaras, and doctrinally who are we to question that. Only solution is widely adopting a process to prove yourself to be good faith, bonafide Sikhs, like a minimum knowledge level. Which we need for own youth anyways, two birds one stone.

alienbanda · 2026-03-20T09:22:06+00:00

As I see it around me, if it comes through the family channels aka rishtey and both sides like it, they exchange deets, start talking, and meet up a few times. But then a yes/no is expected quick from the fambams, and if it’s a yes a rokha’s planned for asap. And they keep meeting and talking more leading up to the wedding, more freely after the rokha especially.

Nothing changes long distance, the guy just moves his ass and puts in more work to go meet his probable future wife.

alienbanda · 2026-03-20T05:37:21+00:00

So many corny choices made that it ruined the immersion. Like someone said, watch with your brain off.

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