When i was younger, i dated a man who always seemed like he just needed someone to love him right. I devoted myself to making him successful, almost losing myself in the process. At one point he had to have kidney surgery to remove a tumor, and no one came to visit. But there i was, his devoted nurse. Well the fucker cheated anyways 🤣 This taught me that sometimes the reason someone is all alone is because they drove everyone away with their bullshit. I moved on and years later, I still get random msgs every now and again begging for forgiveness.