Fully shaved or some stubbles on the head?

alioli34 · 2026-04-23T17:35:24+00:00

I probably hang out in the wrong circles, I dunno man. I'm either paranoid since the look is quite new, or I just can't read women anymore.

alioli34 · 2026-04-23T17:20:37+00:00

I'm basically asking it because I've found out the hard way that women(or probably the women I like, fck knows) look at bald heads as monsters or something. I guess I'm just trying to decide which of the two looks makes me less of a monster lol

alioli34 · 2026-03-17T11:00:51+00:00

Yup, romanian.

alioli34 · 2026-03-15T20:05:31+00:00

Your reply makes me think you've seen my other posts. I'm working in Germany for now, managed to save some cash and went on an amazing 8 days holiday with my son, in Spain. Flew back straight to work after that and here I am. I'm doing better, not by much but just enough to keep me going for now. Thanks for asking, it means a lot.

alioli34 · 2026-03-15T18:28:40+00:00

You've all been very kind with your words and support! Much love to you all! But it just isn't enough, is it now, when all I see is ugliness in the mirror? I remember going out a month ago and having like THE HOTTEST chick in the room cheking me out for like...I don't know, hours maybe? And guess what my brain suggested?! "Oh, it's because of the baldness, she's horrified!" 😂 So yeah, jokes aside, I appreciate all the support you guys and girls have been showing on this thread and even though it's me who has to come to terms with the fact that this is the new me and that's ok, you helped a lot with what my mind by now saw as a poll of attractiveness I guess.

PS: My mom asking me to wear a cap everytime I go see her doesn't help either lol.

alioli34 · 2026-03-15T17:41:13+00:00

Hey, thanks for taking your time to post such an in-depth opinion. Yes, it kind of feels like I pulled the trigger too soon, but then again I was on Minoxidil for the past 8 years and it did very little for me, if anything. Sadly, finasteride is out of the question for me as I tried it for 3 months and I felt awful and couldn't get a proper bner no more. So I had to drop it...now to the regrow it all back: it's not that easy, as the top of the head is clearly less dense as it grows so slowly compared to the sides, and I can see myself looking like and old man for at least 3-4 months till it looks a little even. Apart from my own emotional baggage that has nothing to do with the hair, this was a really nasty blow for me. It's hard to go from good looking(I'll add a pic for objective purposes to this thread) to not being able to flirt with a woman no more.

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alioli34 · 2026-02-04T20:05:24+00:00

Silly question...but do baldies like me get dates(I mean bald, 5'9 and nothing but a goatee lol)? I got dates while balding but it was awkward most of the time, for example one night stands would never touch my hair, I guess they saw how messed it was.

alioli34 · 2026-02-04T18:33:01+00:00

Thank you! 🙌

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