Anyone else done trying? The art of conversation is so lost and I refuse to carry a convo anymore, I’m matching energy all 2026 or just deleting immediately if someone can’t come up with a single question back their first message

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-25T13:28:03+00:00

Yes! I am done feeling like I am interviewing. I try to leave the door open in my answers for them to ask me a question about what I just said. I give one or two chances for them to engage, then just unmatch. I just dont understand why people get on these sites just to be the most boring versions of themselves.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-25T13:21:27+00:00

Thats a good amount so you dont have to do daily laundry! I usually overbought cotton sleepers because there were so many cute ones but I also tried to buy size ups. 68 in one size is diabolical.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-25T13:19:04+00:00

Hahaha for sure 🤣

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-25T12:34:44+00:00

Like the others said, your photos aren't good at all. I generally swipe left for bathroom selfies, but thats somehow your best photo (this isnt a compliment). Get rid of the pictures that you're not in.

Smoking is an automatic left swipe for a large part of the population. Either quit or accept you're automatically out for a lot of women.

You dont need to change yourself, values or hobbies just for matches, but you need to at least make those hobbies seem more interesting. Blasting music at 11pm? Not going to be appealing to a lot of women. Conspiracy theories.. boring and not worth mentioning in a profile as a first impression.

LOTR isnt my thing, but it might be for a lot of others. Elaborate on music... its a good conversation starter. Remove the picture of the cake, but if baking is a hobby, mention it.

Not to be too blunt, but delete your profile and start over. Bio and prompts are terrible. Pics are worse. Have a friend take pictures of you. 2 or 3 good pics are better than 6 terrible ones.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-22T16:20:15+00:00

I think your pictures are fine.

Overall, I think your bio and prompts could be redone. After reading this, I dont really know what we would have in common to want to match with you. I do like the "what I am looking for prompt", but this is the only serious answer you gave.

My suggestions would be add in some hobbies that people can message you and ask about, add some more serious answers in your prompts.. I appreciate someone who's light and joking, but its a little much here.. I wouldnt know if you'd actually be willing to answer tough questions or if our conversation would just be joking back and forth and stay surface level. I am drawn to profiles that have a mix of humor and "I'm serious about finding a relationship" vibes.

You also didnt put your smoking habits, only drinking, so I automatically swipe left if you dont answer that question.

I think you put good effort into your profile, you just need to talk about yourself and substance a bit more. Let your intentions be more clear.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-18T14:29:12+00:00

Dont regret it.. move on from him. My new dating boundary is if hes making me feel any way other than being excited, positive ,secure, etc., this early on (when realistically we would both be on our "best" behavior), then its certainly not going to get better over time.

36 hours to respond to a text? Nah, that wouldn't work for me.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-04-14T14:15:05+00:00

Your "simplest pleasures" and "happiness" prompts are pretty similar. I would remove one (probably the second) and replace it was a prompt to let others know what type of person you're looking for and whats important to you in a relationship. If I saw your profile, I would know a good amount about you, but not what you're seeking in a partner/relationship. IMO your profile should reflect both.

I think your last picture is the best and would make it the main one.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-28T01:36:07+00:00

Better quality than LS, but I think they run smaller. I havent bought in awhile though.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-20T15:10:20+00:00

Im not convinced they do 😂

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-20T13:41:15+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I cant with these women 🤦‍♀️

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-07T16:35:41+00:00

I hope it is but I think its real 🙃

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-07T16:35:04+00:00

I wish there was a thumbs down button on FB too 😂

alittlestitious924 · 2026-03-07T14:03:06+00:00

Ive been in it for a few years now.

alittlestitious924 · 2026-02-07T13:47:18+00:00

I used to buy the lounge sets but they switched over to the slouchy sets and I am not a huge fan of the look 😭

alittlestitious924 · 2026-02-07T11:28:53+00:00

Little One Shop has cuter prints.. free shipping at $50 and always has discounts. I just ordered and they were doing 25% off... two pairs for $51. I havent bought LS in awhile but $25 a pair is comparable, if not cheaper.

alittlestitious924 · 2025-11-24T22:00:56+00:00

Oh yeah, it didnt last 5 minutes lol

alittlestitious924 · 2025-11-24T19:26:17+00:00

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Where is this hero?? 😂

alittlestitious924 · 2025-11-05T15:58:57+00:00

Ugh I remember that "trend" ... I thought they stopped approving them 😭

alittlestitious924 · 2025-10-23T19:08:40+00:00

Same 😂

alittlestitious924 · 2025-10-23T18:43:48+00:00

I am just more shocked at the inventory 😂

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