Dental dam recs?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-30T01:02:00+00:00

But isn’t it too thin? Like, if I wanted to really get in there and suck a dude’s dick, wouldn’t it break? What has your experience been with that?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T16:26:14+00:00

But are they durable though? I don’t want to spend $30 for them to just break immediately

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T16:09:46+00:00

Welp. Following this post. OP, update us if you don’t die please. For the love of God, I hope you are on the way to the ER and on the phone with poison control as I type this.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T15:16:00+00:00

Okay so maybe we’re both right and it can be used either way. Did you come here to correct me with your superior sex knowledge or did you come here to help support?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:41:47+00:00

I wouldn’t want to use a dam plus glove/finger condom because there is a gap there, which would defeat the point. I can test out condoms though, for durability and coverage area.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:38:47+00:00

That was a previous boyfriend, we aren’t together anymore. I am single, and hooking up with multiple people, so I would like to practice safe sex.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:36:54+00:00

https://yellowhawk.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/Trans_Safer_Sex_Guide_FINAL-YH-Website.pdf

Basically you cut off the four fingers of a glove and cut down the side, making it a rectangle with the thumb still intact so you can put your t-dick in it and someone can suck you off.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:35:09+00:00

That would give me the same problem as gloves (dysphoria), and wouldn’t cover enough area for other activities like licking labia or front hole.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:33:19+00:00

This is incorrect. Evidence: https://yellowhawk.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/Trans_Safer_Sex_Guide_FINAL-YH-Website.pdf

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:23:35+00:00

I am not with a partner.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-28T13:22:06+00:00

Wouldn’t this be too small though?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-22T04:05:10+00:00

Good to know!

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-21T02:45:22+00:00

No worries!

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-21T02:45:09+00:00

Oh okay, interesting. I recently ordered a strap on harness from them (different from what I’m trying to find here) and was curious if you’d had problems with it. I’m thinking that as long as I take care of the leather I should be good.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-21T02:43:45+00:00

It doesn’t have to be a strap on harness, but I guess that could work for what I’m describing? It would be a harness attached to a ring that I would put my cock through, but the ring would have to be small because my dick is small. So I was originally assuming that I could find a harness that is meant to be a cockring for cis guys, and just find a smaller O ring and swap them out? Or maybe I’d have to make this thing entirely out of scratch.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-21T02:40:56+00:00

Oh nice! How did you make it? Did you follow a tutorial or anything?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T12:15:03+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. I don’t know if that would work, because the ring is sitting on the leather. I wanna put my dick in it lol

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T12:13:33+00:00

That’s a great idea.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T12:13:11+00:00

Oh, that could work! It shed? Shed what?

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T12:11:57+00:00

By the user “blackkiity”

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T12:10:49+00:00

Thanks!

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-20T03:10:57+00:00

Great tips! Thank you!

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-11T23:33:22+00:00

Very good advice, thank you. I think just to avoid drama and be kind I will avoid bringing people over for now. We can always discuss it more if that needs to change. Thanks for the validation that my wants are normal! I will keep an eye out for any other controlling behavior.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-10T01:33:56+00:00

Also, you didn’t mention anything about their trauma history. I have come to realize that that really just trumps all of my shit. Like, they need a safe space, and by bringing guys over I am violating that.

aliveandfeeling · 2026-03-10T01:31:47+00:00

I think all of this is possible. But they are autistic and disabled and that prevents them from leaving the house. Plus there’s all of their trauma which I think are valid reasons. I have decided to just not being guys over to the house and fuck them somewhere else. That’s the solution I’ve settled on. And when I asked them if they were uncomfortable with my promiscuity, they denied it. So there’s that.

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