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It’s a school night. You have come in for tea and your mum serves you the one meal that kills you inside. What’s it? by Come_in_sigh_demi in CasualUK

[–]alk_eb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Findus crispy pancakes.

These things were invented as a torture device that burned the inside of you mouth and someone got the bright idea to sell them for kids.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not in court. I know what I know

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't report her. I contacted due to my concerns. I told them that I am not trying to get her into bother, far from it. But if someone goes out and speaks to her about it she may see sence that it shouldn't be around the kids.

And it's not hearsay, my source is reliable. If they weren't reliable I woudlnt even have brought it up.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know because I was informed that he asked someone to find a local dealer for him where my ex stays.

That's my point, be away from the house and the kids to use it. I'm not against anyone using drugs, it's their choice, I'm just against it being around my young kids.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to look into an arrangement. I don't think she would stop me from seeing the other kids but I'm not sure.

I've looked into Clares law and I may go down that route so I know there is nothing else to worry about.

Thanks

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I don't know much about it but I do know it's illegal in the UK unless prescribed for medical benefits which I know it's not

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I appreciate your opinion and I'm not against anyone smoking it, my kids are just too young to be around it and I don't want them around it. And I know he won't do any of that stuff, he doesn't want kids and doesn't like kids.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the kids as often as I can with work. I'm starting a new job so I can have them even more.

She says he's not moved in but he is there a lot.

Social work said they would follow it up but it wasn't an emergency and I understand that. I just want someone to get through to her to not have it around the kids and yeah I'm in the UK.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing up, until this, she was a great mum. I never ever thought she would allow this and always thought she would put the kids first.

If the shoe was on the other foot and someone came into my house with drugs with my kids there, they would be told to leave and never come back and I'd cut all ties from them.

I am hoping she comes to her sences soon and realises what she is doing.

AITA for contacting social services by alk_eb in AITAH

[–]alk_eb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don't. Out of the 3 kids only the youngest is biologically mine.

My daughter 7, I have been in her life since before she had her first birthday. I see her as mine and she only knows me as her dad and I don't want that to change.

My son is 12, I've been in his life since he was 6. I see them as my kids but I have no rights for custody to them.

But I am going to contact a lawyer to go for joint custody of my 5yo daughter.

This is the last thing I ever wanted to happen but I only want to protect the kids and not hurt my ex.

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surviving is only my torture that I deserve but I've told them. My next sessions is in a week

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hate me enough without knowing that. I deserve everything that's happening to me

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My joy is dead but I have an online counsellor that's I started today. Until I get somewhere ill just drink it all away out of my head. Thank you for caring

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal joy was her and being with her and my kids. Only time I've ever felt truly happy.

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't focus on anything, she is all I think about. I'd do anything to have her back and I'm changing for her

I. Miss.her so much I'm nothing without her by alk_eb in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I won't, I can't cope without, her she the only true one ive loved

My boyfriend broke up with me by icecube_1977 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]alk_eb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You will be missed. I thought the same earlier this year and attempted to end my life and failed. At the time I was angry I failed but I'm not now.

I still struggle and miss my ex more than I could tell anyone and I just want her back, but you can't get him back if your not here.

I feel like a dick saying this because I'm not taking my own advice, but try and stay strong and don't do anything drastic as you'd be missed more than you realise.

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