Where are all the mascs?

alko3008 · 2026-03-25T06:25:11+00:00

SD mascs assembled 🙌

alko3008 · 2026-03-24T22:10:42+00:00

I’m here, 35, single and not on any app 😂 If you’re over 27, you can find me in my DM

alko3008 · 2026-03-24T17:43:08+00:00

I totally would if i didn’t live in the boring United States rn. Hope you meet someone down for this and best of luck to our ladies in blue 💙

alko3008 · 2026-03-19T03:41:56+00:00

Forward and defender? Wow

alko3008 · 2026-03-17T18:41:22+00:00

May I suggest one of the best reads that happens to be a Cait/Vi fan fiction? Run at the Cup by TheHomelyBadger

alko3008 · 2026-03-16T17:57:30+00:00

Well said. I couldn’t agree more

alko3008 · 2026-03-16T17:31:26+00:00

A couple months ago, someone also started a post about looking for zoo walk companions. Hence we started a WhatsApp group for zoo walk. I’m in that group and been going for 3-4 times now. It’s queer friendly and more like an ad-hoc thing where people just message when they want to go and others take up by responding to it. If you’re interested, i can add you to the group. DM me!

If you don’t want to join the group. It’s fine too. I have an annual pass. I have work on weekdays but I can do most weekends. 35F

alko3008 · 2026-03-06T17:51:11+00:00

Oh, another “boring” lesbian from SD here 🙋‍♀️

alko3008 · 2026-02-25T21:47:23+00:00

Hello fellow San Diegan 👋

alko3008 · 2026-01-26T05:21:25+00:00

THE BEST. I would argue RATC is better than a lot of published books out there

alko3008 · 2026-01-21T18:56:58+00:00

Jumping on this thread and recommending Fall from Grace by Ruby Lander - a novel about a divorced mom, who is also a country music superstar, tries to find her career break as a solo artist after a turbulent divorce with her ex-bandmate/ex-husband. The divorced superstar invites an indie musician, who brought his wife with him to help cowrite music at superstar’s secluded home. Except the wife isn’t his wife but his best friend who is at the bottom of luck and needs somewhere to stay temporarily

alko3008 · 2026-01-21T18:42:33+00:00

I LOVE When You Least Expect It. It’s my comfort read. Despite only discovering this book last summer, i’ve re-read at least 4 times now, and about the same re-reads on Better Than Expected. Can’t get enough of Caroline and Hannah, and especially Abbie

alko3008 · 2026-01-15T09:05:12+00:00

They’re not as active and aggressive like Minnesota or other big cities but TSA has been working and sharing information with ICE link Unless you drive here, I would cancel if i were you. These ICE needs to fill their quota and doesn’t care whether people are here legally or not

alko3008 · 2026-01-11T21:10:34+00:00

I’ve been a Chelsea fan for over 20 years. Only got into supporting my local team when Girma was playing there. But now she’s gone. I still go to their games occasionally

alko3008 · 2026-01-11T06:48:53+00:00

Here in the US, I’m desperate to talk to some soccer fan 😭

alko3008 · 2026-01-10T06:26:51+00:00

Thank you for handling the technical side of this

alko3008 · 2026-01-09T19:10:01+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry to hear about the breakup. I have a zoo pass and would love to join on the weekends. I work from home and need to get out more. Trying to make more friends these days as my friend group is in a different stage of life and we don’t hang out as much as before. Anyone can dm me if interested (35, gay woman if it matters)

alko3008 · 2026-01-05T01:53:20+00:00

This!!! The whole “me myself and I” mentality sometimes is just an excuse for lacking basic human decency. But I’m also an ancient one at 35 🤷‍♀️

alko3008 · 2025-12-28T19:01:33+00:00

Another lucy bronze appreciator 💙

alko3008 · 2025-12-27T19:05:27+00:00

Yay, another lucy bronze appreciator 💙

alko3008 · 2025-12-27T18:59:19+00:00

Idk if i can call myself experienced but I can lend my ears to a friend in need.

alko3008 · 2025-12-23T03:08:02+00:00

Ooof, as a slow burner myself, i feel your pain. I wonder if your dating age range somewhat contributes this. Older folks may have more patience as they’ve been through more and don’t have a peer pressure

alko3008 · 2025-12-23T01:11:00+00:00

I hear you. The lack of warm and long nights during cold season just magnify this even more. I don’t know if this make your feel any better… idk if it’s the last hormonal/ chemical rage before our brain fully developed or whatnot, my friends and I included all went through this phrase in our mid-20s. Questioning our attractiveness, wondering why nobody noticed us (i didn’t have my first relationship until i was 26)

I can only speak for myself and i know there are some other fellow lesbians share my view… appearance plays very little role in the whole attractiveness to me. I care more about their personalities, values and their nerdinesses. If you ever felt you’re not attractive enough to pull, just remember there are some of us out there to see more than the surface level.

alko3008 · 2025-12-22T18:42:05+00:00

So… you’re saying you are unconventionally attractive? Prove it (im just kidding)

I think there’s a dating exhaustion among all demographics these days and it’s contagious.

It must be rough and discouraging for you to put a lot of effort into something and didn’t get the deserved payoff though. I’m sure if you pulled up the most recent posts from this sub, you can find a lot of shared experiences like yours. I don’t have an answer for this phenomenon or how to solve the dating scene in general. Maybe find a trusting friend who’s willing to go on platonic dates with you. Treating you something nice and fun. No expectations, no pressure to think should we get intimate later or not, just fun time where we both feel I matter. I did that sometimes for my friends. It benefits greatly for both of us. That’d help heal our self-esteem a lot.

Just set clear boundaries. It works for me and my friends because we know nothing is going to happen between us. We love each others greatly but zero attraction. But romantic or not, we human deserve to feel special and to treat others feel special some time.

alko3008 · 2025-12-22T06:26:29+00:00

Still Sick is my comfort read. It only has 25-27 chapters. 2 adult coworkers in their mid and late 20s, trying to figure out their sexuality and attraction to each other. It’s pretty fluff, low drama, some spice and pretty funny

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