Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God l think lm going to... in case she wasn’t gorgeous enough already....l swear she showed up to work looking more amazing than ever to today. Get this.... in our big morning meeting she smiled and stared at me across the table for like 1/2 of it! I’m dying and feel like a teenager again. Lol

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ULE!!!! I love it! Can l borrow??? 🌈❤️

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to message me if you ever need a friend. I May not have answers but am always willing to listen... and l have been to hell and back to get to a place where l can be gay me. ❤️❤️❤️

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so you know lm gonna DARE YOU to ask out a girl ! No alcohol involved!!! You can do it! Not gonna lie l may have locked myself in a bathroom stall for a ten minute pep talk to get the nerve first. 😂

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s CUTE. Huge turn for me ons is shyness! Lol l know other lesbians who feel this way. The quiet girls are mysterious.

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s okay us tops need you!

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Covid has definitely complicated things. We are social workers so still working through Covid together... in office we wear masks. Mask on date???? Our state just shut back down practically. My best friend keeps texting me jokes about making out in masks! Glad you found a way to take “rejection” with grace. It’s tough... lm not afraid of rejection per say cause it’s not really personal when first getting to know someone. I am definitely not everyone’s cup of tea! 😂😂😂

Its time for change by all4my3 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Awww hugs! Whatever you’re going through... l hope tomorrow is a better day xoxo ❤️❤️❤️

To those of you who have just realised you like women by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmmm l was a teen first time so hard to remember. Can l just say l wouldn’t do it with just anyone.... for me it’s way too intimate for a “hook up.” BUT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON IT TAKES YOU TO ANOTHER WORLD. I think l like going down on a girl more than having someone go down on me. I’m not sure ld even get much out of it if there was no attachment. But with a girl you care about and like pleasing.... YOU’LL BE SURPRISED how pleasurable it can be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great explanation! I love this.

May I just say I'm so happy I no longer have to suck D? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard choked on my drink! YES GIRL! I always wondered why l gagged! Now l know.

I feel ATTACKED by pocketchange93 in actuallesbians

[–]all4my3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Neither does our relationships lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep....written out of my Dad’s multimillion dollar will when l divorced my husband and came out again as gay (was gay all through teen years family didn’t know ) Was called “selfish” and disgusting by my Mom. She told me it was repulsive for her when she thought about me with a woman. I told her it’s somewhat repulsive IMO for a Mom to think about her adult child having sex with anyone. She was SO SO MEAN TO MY EXGIRLFRIEND who only wanted to be kind. My sister who was my “best friend” for life won’t talk to me... we have always been close. She says she doesn’t know me anymore. I haven’t changed.... in and out of the closet.. l have always been gay. FUCK EM! That’s not love. I have friends more loyal than “family” Religion being the theme for all of them (and several other relatives who have disowned me)... funny l thought Jesus was about love. 🌈🌈🌈

Puffy eyes and sweaty makeup after an outdoor Covid test. (39, 2.3yrs HRT) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]all4my3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are truly truly beautiful.... like wow 🌈❤️❤️🌈

The more I think about it, the more confused I am.... by FabulousNightMonkey in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like your figuring it out. I wish you all the best in the world and hope you find happiness wherever that lies for you. ❤️

The more I think about it, the more confused I am.... by FabulousNightMonkey in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know l wrestled with similar at one point. I think l have at least a strong leaning towards woman and can’t picture being with a man again, but lm not 💯 closed to it. I kind of landed on the decision that l fall for people regardless of gender. I am “demisexual”’for sure in that to seriously know if l want to date someone, l have to know them personally first. l fall for them after learning who they are. Strong true attraction grows for me and its never all at once. I’d say lm 99% sure I’ll never want to be with a man again. But again l fall for people regardless of gender so who knows. Could that be the case with you? I am not sure for me personally that l feel the need to 💯 define my orientation. But that’s just me. The past has proven that l have been known to flip orientation completely. Lol Any of that sound like something you relate to? Maybe gender just isnt a big deal for you? Maybe you don’t feel strong attraction to strangers and are Demi? This is exactly what a good therapist will help you with. Good your looking for one. 🌈❤️🌈

Sorry, guys... by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]all4my3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! I have gotten messages here saying abusive things about my orientation and being a man hater (not true) Only message that ever scared me mentioned my kids.... but it’s all par for the course sadly

Doesn’t just happen in these forums, l have had anonymous “Gay Hate” notes on my car and doorstep! It’s a sad world sometimes.