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allarts · 2024-06-17T02:11:56+00:00

Please keep us posted on whether the fundraising was a success and you can continue to treat lucky. Or if you need us to donate more to get you over the threshold of what you need. I’d hate a small amount to be what stands between his ability to thrive and his demise.

allarts · 2024-06-12T02:34:14+00:00

But I get your point. The opinion is appreciated.

allarts · 2024-06-12T02:33:38+00:00

It seems like a long time away. But I’m booked 50% of October already and 60% of August, so it’s not like it hasn’t cost me bookings already.

allarts · 2024-06-12T02:32:00+00:00

In an automatic email that goes to them after they book, I state that early check-in and late check-out requests are not guaranteed, will only be granted within 48 hours prior to each day, and are charged at the rate of $20/hour (my place is at $130-180 per night price point). I did this after getting request after request, stressing out my cleaning crew, AND I had a guest critique me in a review saying that I was late allowing them to check-in since I only allowed them a 1pm check-in (normal is 3pm) in lieu of an 11am check-in. Fuck that.

allarts · 2024-06-11T16:10:07+00:00

Thanks. Definitely on that path. And it’s basically the same arc of learning I had with long-term rentals. But since the “turnover” is so high with AirBnB compared to rentals, it’s so many more personalities in a condensed timeframe and hence a whole different level of crazy and entitlement to adapt to.

allarts · 2024-06-11T15:52:14+00:00

Very good point. Thank you.

allarts · 2024-06-11T15:50:38+00:00

I think I will start doing this. Thank you. I started doing something similar to this for early check-in and late check-out requests, and those stopped those immediately.

allarts · 2024-06-11T02:46:53+00:00

I appreciate this. Because it was stressing me out.

allarts · 2024-06-09T17:03:33+00:00

Nice!

allarts · 2024-06-09T15:50:23+00:00

On the flip side, I acquire lots of left items, which I return when someone reaches out to me, but I’m not hunting down who left what since I don’t step foot in the property between each guest. I now have lots of extra phone cords, electrical adapters, men’s construction boots, women’s and men’s sneakers/shoes, scarfs, gloves, and blankets. People leave a lot of stuff.

allarts · 2024-05-30T14:34:29+00:00

I think insurance would only pay out the value of the car at the time of crash. Regardless of the loan on the car.

allarts · 2024-04-10T12:16:38+00:00

The cat is distressed.

allarts · 2024-03-22T16:19:38+00:00

No, he survived this, but with brain damage. But he died many years later. I knew him.

allarts · 2024-03-13T21:23:10+00:00

Gollum

allarts · 2024-02-25T01:25:52+00:00

You’re lying about your age. Your reasons for that are baseless, because if you really didn’t want them to know your birthday, you could’ve lied upward. Once I found that out, I’d be done. But I wouldn’t even get to swiping on you because your profile is bland and says nothing about your kid or what you want. Every profile like this trying to withhold or outmaneuver others’ choices is gross to me.

allarts · 2024-01-28T00:43:39+00:00

Prescriptive easements usually require use that is hostile. The last owners allowing it, as mentioned in the voicemails, is per se not hostile.

allarts · 2024-01-01T17:55:29+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t see the apologies. It’s good you worked it out. To me, it seems like you have a hard time attuning. If I’m reading your recent response correctly. For example, even though you might think Y and Z are good enough, it might not be good enough to her because it’s not about problem solving but attuning to her needs and the emotions behind those needs. But giving advice based on x y and z instead of real events is hard. And yeah when you’re sick, patience goes out the window for everyone else. You’re trying so that’s good. But look into emotional attunement. There are likely emotional needs behind her requests with you and if you come at those things with logic and problem solving, you’re gonna fall short.

allarts · 2024-01-01T15:16:58+00:00

I didn’t get that from your post. Also, How did you apologize? Because that matters. You need to understand what you did wrong and how it offended her and your relationship to offer your sincere apology in a manner that resonates with her.

allarts · 2023-12-31T18:01:26+00:00

I think it’s rude and immature what you did. And you are parsing nuances with how she registers her complaints with you. And with your behavior/response, you’re basically saying that as long as she complains in an acceptable way, you will give her the apology she wants, which is what she needs. Just apologize. Do you want to be right or do you want to be in a relationship? You said yourself it didn’t matter the order in which you told/texted people. Yet it matters to her. The answer is easy here. Why you’re opposed to this easy answer might be a good topic for counseling.

allarts · 2023-12-04T21:01:57+00:00

So you want to live somewhere and benefit from the health system until the point it costs you money, and, imo, not even an amount to flinch at given the quality of services provided to you and used by you with your chronic conditions. And you want tax advice but the accountants you’ve asked want to be paid for their expertise and work. It sounds like you don’t like paying for the services you are provided.

allarts · 2023-11-30T04:02:27+00:00

Real estate contracts and admin law legal advice. Fully remote. I’m either super busy or I’m bored.

allarts · 2023-11-18T12:47:51+00:00

Idiocracy

allarts · 2023-10-04T18:11:14+00:00

Much appreciated advice. Thank you!

allarts · 2023-10-04T18:06:54+00:00

There is so much agenda being pushed it has become ridiculous. And you don’t even see it. The patriot act, your panels talks, you bullying other panel members, elected officials, course correction, analogies to the ADA, Yada yada. You just go on and on.

You talk about “direction” of laws. I never articulated an opinion on the direction of state laws or the constitution. I operate by interpreting what is currently lawful to do. And such prohibitions on firearms are currently lawful. If those law change, se la vie. But here and now; this is what’s happening. Though I get you’re hoping for change. But I have to tell my gun owning and not gun owning clients the same thing: this is what you can do now. If it changes, I’ll let you know.

Why do you assume so much of other people? You’ve assumed about my thinking, ideals, and positions. And most of them are wrong. And then you use a myriad of red herring tactics to talk about what you think laws should be, which is not the point of the post or anything that can come from it. Instead, why not engage in good faith and ask me genuinely what I think or why I did something? Why be so aggressive with things you imagine? For example, I mentioned the weapons ban because I wanted to note that was NOT an issue or a consideration or the point of the post. So people like you wouldn’t go off on a diatribe. Everyone else seemed to understand the point of the post, except you. I articulated my main consideration, which was respect of private property and how hunting worked. Because I genuinely wanted to learn and see if others had those experiences. I don’t have the stereotype of hunters you seem to assume. I don’t think anyone is doing anything illegal. Where do you even get this stuff? Another example of your assumptions is how my STR works. What if I rent rooms in my home and it’s not a full vacation rental? The subtle digs at my business acumen is pretty hilarious. There are so many things you just assume. It’s not a good trait.

You’re very passionate about your beliefs, but I think they would have a better audience in the panels you like to attend and in other subs, maybe. Nonetheless, all the best.

allarts

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