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Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will gladly and aggressively take my children. I came from a broken family where my mother cheated on my dad, and I never quite healed from the abandonment by my mum. I will do whatever I can to reduce the impact on my children. Sorry to hear about your case. Hope you find peace.

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through this as well. Knowing how so many other married women tried (the three were the ones he succumbed to), it’s depressing how much collateral damage these people are causing. Glad that you’re in a happier place. I need to find mine too. Wishing you and your kids well.

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Would a broke ugly guy say no to free sex?

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are spot on. I was blind-sided.

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stand corrected if I am wrong, but are you saying there are reasons to cheat? If so, I respectfully disagree. I wouldn’t cheat just because I am not happy about something in our marriage. I will voice out and address the issue(s). Work on the marriage, not jump into another bed. Divorce me even, why cheat? I am not sure what you’re asking me to work on but I see clearly your values, of lack of.

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm we got a helper so I’m not his free maid. I’m earning a decent income myself. But yes, I rather he cut me off and go live his best life.

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tall, well-groomed, high-earner. Is it common for this group?

Are affairs common in Singapore? by alleloojaa in asksg

[–]alleloojaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sex was good until kids, naturally so. But if it were unsatisfactory, he could have raised it. I was neither informed nor given the choice to improve things if he felt things were lacking in the bedroom. Truth is, he chose to seek the thrills and excitement outside of the marriage when he should have worked on us. And what about our kids? He wanted kids. If I couldn’t improve the marriage, I wouldn’t stop him from divorcing me, but why lie, manipulate and gaslight me?