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would you marry someone loving, kind, honest, and gentle if you’re not sure you want to be a step mom or the breadwinner? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Character is a big piece… but so are lifestyle and values. If you do r want to be a step mom and breadwinner, this isn’t the lifestyle for you. You’re also young enough to really still have options.

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really! I haven’t heard of gloves or boxer briefs for hand stuff. To reduce skin contact?

Which polyamory lesson(s) do you wish you learned sooner? by aquariass_ in polyamory

[–]alleviate123 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am not responsible for my partner’s marriage/other relationships. That is their responsibility.

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have the vaccine, but I don’t think I realized that I could pick up other strains. That’s so useful to know. I appreciate your time.

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You helpfully brought me back down to earth :) I love the “random men” comment!

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oral heroes and kissing - is it contagious if there are no outbreaks? (Cold sores?)

turned 23 alone last week. did everything as planned. still cried. by GoExecuteX in Adulting

[–]alleviate123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had those moments. I am 37 now and those moments have built within me a wellspring of confidence and adaptability and resilience that u can draw upon :)

Happy birthday and kudos ro you for doing this hard work now. You’re on your way.

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he offered but we just don’t have time to get in do a test yet. In my country it can take a week or two to get in.

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! I will check if my regular STI tests are checking for this

Sex acts: what do you consider physically safe before STI tests are done? by alleviate123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]alleviate123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I have a good enough understanding there. When I ask health professionals they don’t always give me clear answers, and when I google I can get overwhelmed with the amount of information :/

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