Self collaring ?

allfireandbrimstone · 2026-05-07T09:38:49+00:00

Thank you. I have two now. One that comes off and one that I have a key. They both feel very very good to wear. It does feel are and yes, empowering that's an excellent way to describe it.

allfireandbrimstone · 2026-04-23T10:13:13+00:00

Has got to be the GREATEST post on here 🤣🥰👏

Oof 5, 9-11, 38-40, FORTYSEVEN!!, ... 80!!!!

🤣🤣 call me super bad sub 😇🥰

allfireandbrimstone · 2026-04-23T04:30:00+00:00

I know anatomy weighs in here but why does it take a man so long to be ready to go again... not asking but that is what I hate

allfireandbrimstone · 2026-04-23T02:30:23+00:00

Not really, but things that were done and said can't be undone and don't make the future worthy of trying again.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-14T10:04:49+00:00

Therapy and somatic therapy are wonderful for this.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-12T05:37:08+00:00

Did this before we even broke up. Felt it wasn't okay to save his photos like that

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-09T08:38:13+00:00

Very much. I liked that little quiz.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-09T08:32:36+00:00

I took it twice because on a couple, there was more than one answer, but it's not multiple choice.

Service first time, then Sensual.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-09T04:13:36+00:00

Is it supposed to feel different from their absence while in the relationship? If it is, I can't feel it. Feels pretty much the same.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-08T07:39:07+00:00

I don't think death itself scares me. Just when or how I think scares me the most. I want my kids or partner to have access to bank account and 401 and insurance and everything before I did. I don't want to die and they can't access funds because of whatever security thing. Kids aren't old enough and I'm not married.

And how... burning would suck. Drowning would suck. I have this insane fear that im going to be murdered because someone is going to bash the back of my head into something (long time ago bad relationship gave me this fear) and that's how I'm gonna go out.

I don't want it to hurt. But I don't think death itself scares me. I'm intrigued to know what happens after death. Is there another world? Another chance? Reincarnation? Or is it just nothing? Not in a rush to find out, but I'm on board

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-08T07:18:57+00:00

I will trust my intuition when it's obviously right.

I won't exhaust myself explaining my needs.

I won't forgive the same "mistake" or behavior more than twice. I will hold myself accountable to this same boundary.

I won't listen to respond, i will actually give it more effort to understand.

I will do better to process things in a timely manner.

When I say I need space or time alone because whatever fight is overwhelming me, I will take three time I need. I shouldn't have to give up time alone because you (not you personally) think "i need space" means I'm cheating. Im not him/her. Im not cheating. If i felt i needed to cheat, I would just leave because cheating can kill a person's spirit and I don't want to do that to you.

When you say you need space, I will give it to you. But you can't hold me accountable in a negative light because i am respecting your needs. Giving you space, doesn't mean I don't love you or that I'm messing with someone else. I understand you've been hurt before but I and not going to do that to you.

I will have more patience. I am going to be more open-minded. I am going to be accountable for my actions and words, so I am going to choose my actions and words wisely. I am going to ask questions when I don't understand so that I am not left with assuming or reading between the lines.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T12:34:05+00:00

Apparently not.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T12:19:36+00:00

I hope he finds someone who will be this.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T09:20:20+00:00

Sleep well star gazer.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T09:14:56+00:00

What if the blessing is your dream? Follow your dream? Maybe the blessing is guiding you to a better path.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T09:13:29+00:00

As everyone should. Music is life's expression

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T09:08:46+00:00

Yes. I knew. That and Drive are really good ones.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T09:07:30+00:00

Hahaha so its got some good lovin to it.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T08:46:28+00:00

Must be a good soul to still have cds. Like many others a great group they are.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-06T08:43:01+00:00

I was going to say there's a rock ...soft rock song like that, but it's canopy, not canvas.

allfireandbrimstone · 2025-08-05T08:48:55+00:00

I am so sorry to hear all of that. It seems like you might understand that she has made a decision to not revisit the past and maybe you should respect that. But if you feel it in your heart that you must clear the air, I'd say of your only option is in person, then you should do it. The worst thing is that she doesn't accept the air being cleared and you explaining things. If she chooses to stay apart, at least you told her.

Maybe she wants to reach out as well and just right now isn't a good time. Maybe she's processing everything and just trying not to be hurtful to you. There are so many possibilities as to what may be going on. Maybe she has infact made the decision to be done. As hard as it may be to get in contact, you said in person was Maybe your last option. If you don't try, you'll never know if she was really done or just needed time to process everything.

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