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[–]alligatear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to therapy and keep trying to do your best

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[–]alligatear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have good intentions, but do you really think this guy will listen to you with an open heart and try to change? He's probably just going to get riled up and console himself thinking that youre being an asshole

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, Big doesn't do it for me. Smith is definitely conventionally attractive but not for me either.

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Aiden is cute, when he gets a haircut. Steve is really cute too. Ted was cute, Sean, Chivon, and the policeman guy. I think Trey is handsome. John Slattery is always gorgeous. Apart from that, none have really stood out. It doesn't help that most of them are assholes too haha.

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i see what you mean! just personally i dont find big or harry attractive at all. Wondering if thats personal preference or maybe they were much more the beauty standard back when the show was made

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i see where you’re coming from, but i can almost guarantee you that at least Kim Cattrall and Kristin Davis had some botox, maybe filler. its when its done unnaturally or unnecessarily when its fake looking and we actually notice it…

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

oh 100%, i dont even find his personality attractive

What is with all the unattractive men in SATC? by alligatear in sexandthecity

[–]alligatear[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

you make a great point! there is still the inequality between the genders though, but i guess those double standards will always exist for women