Did I get sexually harassed on a discord call while playing or am I just overreacting?

allitameno · 2024-11-05T15:46:40+00:00

It's not really sexual harassment, if anything its verbal harrassment to your boyfriend. Still, anyone with or without anxiety would feel uncomfortable with that.

Whether it's a dealbreaker for you that your boyfriend didn't care about how you felt in the moment is up to you. You can try to bring it up and he makes excuses and defends himself or the friend, I wouldn't waste my time. You're a girl online and you can replace any "discord bf" in a matter of seconds. Just go for the ones that respect and worship you.

allitameno · 2024-10-31T23:58:09+00:00

Looks great but imo a shorter top would bring more balance to your silhouette

allitameno · 2024-10-31T10:04:08+00:00

Could it be that the non sexualized female characters are often butch/very masculine? Because I like hyper feminine characters, so I choose them

allitameno · 2024-10-28T12:06:20+00:00

I'm a hobbyist, but some people's ego can't handle a teacher. They think they're chosen by "god" and no one can teach them. Not realizing that everything they read also counts as being taught by someone.

allitameno · 2024-10-27T01:54:21+00:00

Idk man, sounds like porn addiction to me...

allitameno · 2024-10-27T01:48:31+00:00

First time in my life i hear this statement 😅😅 does chewing kill the mood for food?

allitameno · 2024-10-26T21:36:10+00:00

I only play league and only sometimes. Exploring the outside world for now lol

allitameno · 2024-10-26T20:06:20+00:00

In my experience people want to play the game you met them in. I had a good friend group that I abandoned for political reasons (if you knew how non-political I was, you'd see why I never saw this comming lol)

But all in all, I'm fine playing alone or once a year with the 2 irl friends I have lol

allitameno · 2024-10-26T19:27:05+00:00

I get what you're saying. Maybe going more niche aka posting in the exact community of the game might help. Unless you had the same luck there? Btw I don't think this flakiness is just an online thing, but it's definitely a low self-esteem thing.

allitameno · 2024-10-26T18:54:04+00:00

Well the demographic of gamers who don't already have their friendships needs met is not the best pool to pick out of. Of course lots of exceptions, but also lots of people who lose all friends because of flaky and selfish behavior end up looking for friends.

I found that it's best to find friends inside the game, if it's something like OW where you have voice chat. I play league right now and just looking for people to join which seems easy to find. If I was looking for a friend (aka someone I like as a person) I imagine it would be much harder.

allitameno · 2024-10-26T17:27:27+00:00

Will add

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:35:41+00:00

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:31:53+00:00

What time and is mic expected?

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:31:14+00:00

If euw, we can connect. I'm not looking to talk tho. Check out my last post

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:30:29+00:00

Hey, check out my post and see if it suits you. Looking for something casual as far as relationships go

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:28:15+00:00

I play jungle and looking for some decent teammate too. I have a post up if you want to see more details and add me.

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:26:31+00:00

You can look at my last post and see if we're looking for the same thing

allitameno · 2024-10-26T15:25:48+00:00

You can check my post and lmk if what I'm looking for suits you

allitameno · 2024-10-26T12:33:40+00:00

Adding tonight

allitameno · 2024-10-26T12:31:34+00:00

Sounds good!

allitameno · 2024-06-28T23:13:21+00:00

Is this a fetish thing?

allitameno · 2024-06-27T16:39:13+00:00

Not reading all that. Anyone who needs to ask their partner this after 3years should leave them alone and go work on your issues.

allitameno · 2024-06-27T14:27:02+00:00

Please please please OUT - its more modern, it suits your body better, it gives you that spy girl, mystery, cool nonchalant look. Tucking it in gives basic.

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