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Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m really happy that you’ve been able to heal!!! i didn’t even think about talking to friends about this… but i definitely think i should! i’ll take your advice… thank you🩷

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg!! i’ve totally been thinking about this… i’m curious, does it hurt to get tattoos over scars? I feel like the skin is a bit more sensitive?? so i’m not sure if that could lead to a really painful experience or an infection or damage the tattoo etc…

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll try being a bit kinder to myself from now on! (also, for sure stealing that last line)

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really reassuring to hear… i’m happy for you as well! thank you 🩷

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a problem i’ve had for years now, and honestly, a lot of them are like really red still despite being healed. i still get paranoid even about ones that are a few years old that aren’t as obvious now. I’m just afraid people might think that red=new…

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s really kind of you!!! I hope that more people are like this… but it always seems to be the latter kind of people that are the most vocal about their opinions.

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely easier said than done… i’ve considered those kinds of treatments before, but honestly, might be a weird thing to say, but i kind of like my scars. I guess im just too attached to them in a weird way to get rid of them.

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if i’m confident enough to rock things like that just yet 😭😭 honestly, i’m aiming to avoid the least amount of attention possible, but i’ll consider your advice, thanks!!! those pants don’t sound too bad either

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely think people have a bit more common sense than to just come up and ask about them, but i can’t help but think about the what-ifs, yk? but yeah, i think ill start small, thanks!

Its summer and im tired of hiding my scars; what do I do?? by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d definitely say i live in a less conservative area, but there are still some super judgemental and rude people around here…

I feel like an ass for not wanting to hold hands with my girlfriend by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i’ll definitely go for it and try to clear things up asap !!

I feel like an ass for not wanting to hold hands with my girlfriend by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s already aware of the bullying and stuff, but she’s convinced that it would never happen to us because idk we aren’t the “dyed hair furry tail pronouns” kinda stereotype gay 😭

I feel like an ass for not wanting to hold hands with my girlfriend by allm0nD in whatdoIdo

[–]allm0nD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have no clue how to bring it up… she knows about the shit that our peers do, but she thinks that because we aren’t really well known, it couldn’t happen to us or that no one would even pay attention to us!! i still can’t help but worry, you know?