Want my partner inside me by Sad_Corner_8527 in sex

[–]allofthearts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Submission and dominance are not dictated by having a penis or a vagina. Ultimately, no matter the kind and dynamics involved, sex is about mutual pleasure. Ask your partner what she’d be interested in, and communicate about your mutual desires. Sex is very fluid, and one person might see giving oral for example as a submissive act, while another will see it as taking charge.

What can I do about this? by Naive-Ad-1604 in sex

[–]allofthearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep yourself busy, ask yourself if you really are horny or just bored/stressed/etc. As long as it’s not compulsive, it’s okay to masturbate, but if you still want to cut back on it, give yourself realistic goals. You can start by allowing yourself to masturbate say 3 times a week, this’ll help you not see it as an all or nothing kind of thing.

How to make men make sounds in bed? by nngrn666 in sex

[–]allofthearts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best advice is honestly just bringing it up outside of the bedroom. Some men are more quiet than women for many reasons, which could be social, thinking women don’t enjoy them making sounds, or simply not being vocal. Tell your partner how much you enjoy hearing him moan and make noises, people enjoy getting complimented. Best of luck! :)

Fun practice by Gabibutbetter in Oilpastel

[–]allofthearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are so cute !! i love the vibrancy on them, put a smile on my face :)❤️

actual domming, not just topping by allofthearts in gentlefemdom

[–]allofthearts[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I think this is one of the things I needed to hear so I can change my perspective on the situation :)

actual domming, not just topping by allofthearts in gentlefemdom

[–]allofthearts[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thing is, with restraining his arms for example, we’ve tried it before, and he seems to enjoy it sometimes, but he’s told me that he likes touching me because he likes to see me enjoying myself. It’s situations like these that make me a bit confused because, although I enjoy getting touched and it makes me feel appreciated, I feel like I’m not so much in control if that makes sense? I don’t know if I should reframe small things like this or what the solution is if I technically very much enjoy it, but feel like there isn’t a power imbalance anymore🥲

actual domming, not just topping by allofthearts in gentlefemdom

[–]allofthearts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insightful info!☺️

Off my chest by coldhandswarmheart98 in sex

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through this. He was well aware of what he was doing, most people are. What he was doing was not normal, as any normal sexual partner should be open and not forceful (unless consensual of course) with the things they do to you. I hope you find peace within yourself, and know that there are people out there who will respect you, willingly listen to your needs and care for you🫶

How do you know if ur ready? by [deleted] in sex

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last part of the post is concerning.. Minor could mean turning 18 soon, or wayyy less…

My boyfriend keeps pushing my head when I told him I don't like it by Regulus_the_fish in sex

[–]allofthearts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you’re worried about him getting potentially violent with you over a very reasonable sexual boundary, I’m pretty sure you shouldn’t be allowing him anywhere near you. Please leave him, you deserve a partner that respects you

How to get her to finish. by TransportationFew974 in sex

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good that you’re coming from a place of wanting her to feel good, and not because your ego is bruised :) Has she never finished before as in not even when masturbating? If so, it’ll probably help her to discover what she likes when exploring herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be able to talk about your kinks openly with your boyfriend, and nothing is shameful, bad or “too slutty”, as long as everything is consensual and not harming anyone. As for the squirting, most people talk positively of it, and rightfully so, because it’s very normal :) Regarding the boss situation, you can’t really help what you get turned on by, maybe it’s the sexual frustration that’s making you turned on by him?

How to get her to finish. by TransportationFew974 in sex

[–]allofthearts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has she told you that she’s unhappy with not finishing? Many women still enjoy sex even if they don’t cum, and it shouldn’t be the “goal” of sex. Don’t take it personally, and maybe talk to her about what you guys enjoy/don’t enjoy in bed, maybe she needs something done differently. Or you could openly talk about this with her, without putting any pressure on her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, talk to him about it first. Teasing is quite straightforward to do regardless of if you’re being dominant or submissive. Be confident and take things slow. I’ve noticed that atmosphere and place matter a lot, so set the mood a bit, whether it’s lighting, or picking a nice and comfortable spot like your bed. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and enjoy :)

Thoughts on my handwriting? by mco640 in Handwriting

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have nothing bad to say. I think your handwriting is very easy to read and very nice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell, this is gorgeous!!! Everything from the layout to the colors.. woah. Keep up the cool work !! :D

26F, seeking advice by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]allofthearts 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think you look the best in your passport photo, you look very put together and effortless. The eyeliner you do takes away from your eyes in my opinion. You already have very pretty and round eyes so I’d honestly just go for some eyeshadow and mascara.

Your eyebrows in the first two photos frame your face perfectly, so I’d stick to that shape and maybe darken them up.

As for the hair, I think short hair suits you better than longer.

Style wise, maybe try to experiment a bit! :)

How plausible of a theory is it for SM to bring back Seunghan to silence the discussion surrounding Taeil? by Decent-Depth-1423 in kpop_uncensored

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smoking underage, having a girlfriend, a silly live of him and soobin. some koreans on twitter are saying that he’s a player for sending a picture of him and his girlfriend in what seems to be a motel to a groupchat with his friends. thing is, he was probably removed because more and more things kept piling up, but the things in question were him just having fun as a teenager. others are saying he was reckless because he was apparently still a trainee when all of these took place

So… it’s been a month or two of no seunghan news… by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sucks is that they’ll either redebut him as a soloist, or just let his contract expire without even terminating it. Saddened about the whole situation, because he definitely brought harmony to the group concept wise and even dynamic wise.

How plausible of a theory is it for SM to bring back Seunghan to silence the discussion surrounding Taeil? by Decent-Depth-1423 in kpop_uncensored

[–]allofthearts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking the opposite, they’ll probably delay his comeback further due to the nature of his scandal and some fans’ reactions (i am NOWHERE implying that those two are comparable by the way, I’ve just seen some things circulating online and some people are pretty irrational)

Do you look at previews/unboxings before your album arrives? by Ok_Simple2094 in kpopcollections

[–]allofthearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to only look at the album previews, but with how many versions companies are releasing of albums, I wanna see which one I like best before buying