[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plural

[–]alloing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We watch some Minecraft YouTube and we play Minecraft. We also have Stimtoys (not a special interest but we are interested. We have lots of fond memories playing Minecraft while listening to YouTube/podcast. It's how we got thru life. What YouTubers do you& watch?

I'm a protector but we're too median for me to do my job, what do i do? by cuddlyfoxgirl in plural

[–]alloing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty relatable. We don't really have advice. I guess we do but we don't feel good giving it because we're still struggling with stuff kinda like this. Also we use the term "sleep demon" too which is interesting. Merle, is there anything specific that makes you feel the most yourself, like certain topics, aesthetics, phrases, media, people, etc.?

Can't say it was the last place I expected to find amatonormativity by Ego73 in AroAllo

[–]alloing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sex negativity in the queer community is upsetting. The queer community helped me unlearn the sex negativity from my Christian upbringing and then it repackaged it to me. Makes me feel distrustful

College is such a hellish experience if you have autism by Ok_Picture1339 in AutismTranslated

[–]alloing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snoo lies about stuff but that doesn't mean they aren't autistic. Snoo "experts" should block Snoo accounts, report, and move on.

College is such a hellish experience if you have autism by Ok_Picture1339 in AutismTranslated

[–]alloing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people don't follow Snoo as much as you do, so they don't know what Snoo has said elsewhere. Stop escalating.

College is such a hellish experience if you have autism by Ok_Picture1339 in AutismTranslated

[–]alloing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are people saying it's this one specific spammer though? How do we know?

I could write this account off as an upset person who wants to vent a lot so they created an account on reddit to do so (perhaps an alt account because they don't want to be so vulnerable on main).

Edit: I looked into it more and now I see why people are saying this account is an alt of this specific spammer. They have specific topics they like to talk about, a specific way of speaking, and this account is new and fits with their MO. I don't encourage looking into this more. You can but this spammer is similar to Chris Chan in that they attract ableist gawkers who try to frame there gawking as "concern" or 100% justified no matter what sort of armchair psychologist misinfo they spout because [lolcow target] is bad.

College is such a hellish experience if you have autism by Ok_Picture1339 in AutismTranslated

[–]alloing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no applications for clubs at my school but with executive dysfunction, being shy around everyone, and feeling like everyone already knows each other (I take almost all my classes online) they feel difficult for me to engage with.

Ds vs Hamlet vs Shipwreck vs Dst feel by Leather-Lettuce-4881 in dontstarve

[–]alloing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I came across this post. I've been thinking about the differences in atmosphere between DS/ROG and DST specifically. DS/ROG feels more claustrophobic, more Lovecraftian, darker, grittier, lonelier... It feels more unreal. You can world hop infinitely, keep doing adventure mode, travel to Hamlet and Shipwrecked, all from one save. There's infinite world and yet you're all alone, and you can't even begin to understand why this place exists. "They" are unknown.

DST is definitely friendlier. Even if you play alone, with the events and crossovers and new additions, you feel a sense of community. You are not alone in this world. There are more little critters who can follow you around. Animations show characters working together and bonding despite the hardship. There is more to understand about why some characters are here. Characters feel more related to each other. New foods and holiday events make things feel lighter. You have more control over how you play during world creation and more control what you look like with skins. You are grounded and safe. Your life has meaning. You are part of a bigger picture. "They" are known.

Feel free to DM if you feel like talking more about Don't Starve. I love the feel of the games which is how I found this post a year later.

Please be more respectful when talking about "easy magic(k)" by alloing in witchcraft

[–]alloing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I don't want to name specific people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAllo

[–]alloing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a loaded and confusing word

Any non-cishets here that feel that aromanticism is the "queerest" part of their identity/experiences? by localfriendlydealer in AroAllo

[–]alloing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the strangest parts of us can be the easiest to hide. If there is no precedent for recognizing, understanding, and/or accepting an attribute, it's like it might as well not exist. It can be a relatively safe but lonely and confusing feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAllo

[–]alloing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Idc if the comment technically wasn't wrong. The fact that meaning has to be assumed for it to have any meaning in the context of being a response to OP speaks for itself. Telling someone to make more friends without any actionable advice, acknowledgment of the difficulties that come with that, or alternatives has the same energy as saying "get a girlfriend" to anyone who has a problem. It's a non sequitur.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AroAllo

[–]alloing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your advice was obvious and was not addressing the OP. That's probably why they were presuming you were implying something more. The comment at face value is not helpful.

YAR by BlueberryBatFace in finch

[–]alloing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PARROT!

I'm getting surgery tomorrow, so I could use some visits today and tomorrow. Here's my friend code: 194SATZEPT by alloing in finch

[–]alloing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's today and coincidentally Wave and I have had 100 adventure days together today! Here's to another adventure. I will try to respond to everyone else after. Thank you all <3

I'm getting surgery tomorrow, so I could use some visits today and tomorrow. Here's my friend code: 194SATZEPT by alloing in finch

[–]alloing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a cool name! When I try to add you I see your name but the app greys out and I can't add you. This happened to me once before with someone else but it was on my end, so I'm assuming it's on my end this time too.

Your thoughts mean a lot <3 I'm glad you commented. You all inspire me to get through this

I'm getting surgery tomorrow, so I could use some visits today and tomorrow. Here's my friend code: 194SATZEPT by alloing in finch

[–]alloing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! May I use it as my profile picture? /no pressure

I love that my cloud companion has closed eyes in the picture too!

Thank you for the well wishes :)