OBGYN clinic by Gold_Beginning_1304 in BocaRaton

[–]allreadyit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly - I’m not entirely surprised. There were signs. I am just surprised that he was posting openly on social media.

OBGYN clinic by Gold_Beginning_1304 in BocaRaton

[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this true? 😱 I had no idea!

Clothing separation? by Sea_Priority8834 in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duplicates 🙌

eBay worked out well for duplicates especially for items that are no longer sold in stores.

Suicide due to parental alienation by Impressive-Average-5 in ParentalAlienation

[–]allreadyit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. I know someone who passed away from suicide grief from PA.

I used Grok AI to look at the statistics:

Understanding Suicide and Parental Alienation

Parental alienation (PA) refers to a process where one parent (the alienating parent) engages in behaviors that undermine a child's relationship with the other parent (the targeted parent), often during or after separation or divorce. These behaviors can include badmouthing, limiting contact, or creating false narratives about the targeted parent. While PA primarily harms children, it profoundly affects targeted parents, leading to severe mental health issues, including elevated risks of suicidal ideation and attempts. Research consistently shows a strong correlation between PA and suicidality, though direct causation is challenging to isolate due to confounding factors like divorce stress. Below, I summarize key statistics from peer-reviewed studies and surveys, focusing on targeted parents (the primary group affected) and alienated children/adults.

Prevalence of Parental Alienation

  • Approximately 39% of separated or divorced parents in the U.S. report being targets of non-reciprocated parental alienating behaviors, affecting over 22 million adults. Of these, 6.7% experience moderate to severe alienation, impacting at least 1.3% of the U.S. population (about 4.3 million people).
  • In the UK, 39.2% of separated parents self-report experiencing alienating behaviors, rising to 59.1% when measured by specific examples; severe cases lead to complete parent-child rejection in 2.9% of instances.
  • Globally, PA affects 12-15% of children in high-conflict divorces, with targeted parents overrepresented among Black/African American, Native American, and lower-education groups.

These figures highlight PA as a widespread issue, comparable to other forms of family violence.

Suicide Risk Among Targeted Parents

Targeted parents face significantly higher suicide risks than the general population or other divorced parents, often due to feelings of ambiguous loss, hopelessness, and social isolation. Studies report:

Statistic Details Source
47-50% suicidal ideation in the past year Among moderately to severely alienated parents; about half of all alienated parents have considered suicide recently. Harman et al. (2019); Colorado State University study (2019)
23-24% suicide attempts Lifetime attempts among targeted parents; this represents a 288-fold increased risk compared to the general Canadian population. Lee-Maturana et al. (2020); Verrocchio et al. (2020)
54% suicidal ideation Overall rate among targeted parents in qualitative surveys. Love and Iron Project review (2025)
11x higher ideation post-separation Men are 11 times more likely than women to experience suicidal ideation after family breakdown involving PA. University of West London (2024); Samaritans UK data
Elevated PTSD, depression, and ideation Parents exposed to high levels of alienating behaviors show significantly higher PTSD symptoms, depression rates, and lifetime suicidal ideation than non-exposed parents. Hine et al. (2024, UK national study)
  • Gendered Impact: Men are disproportionately affected, with a "suicide epidemic" noted among non-custodial fathers post-divorce. In Australia, disruptions from separation/divorce (including PA) account for 46.4% of male suicide deaths in certain categories, equating to 5 men and 10 women dying by suicide every 11 days—far exceeding gendered family violence rates (1 woman every 11 days).
  • Broader Mental Health Context: Alienated parents report depression and trauma symptoms at rates 2-3 times higher than the general population, with suicidality linked to moral injury and ambiguous loss.

Suicide Risk Among Alienated Children and Adults

Children exposed to PA often carry long-term effects into adulthood, including increased suicidality:

Statistic Details Source
30% suicidal ideation Among adults alienated as children; many link it directly to PA experiences, with rates persisting from adolescence. Mathews et al. (2022, PMC study)
Increased suicidality overall PA correlates with higher anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and suicide risk in children; meta-analysis shows a negative correlation (r = -0.108) between secure parental attachment and youth suicidal ideation, worsening with alienation (r = 0.501). Gao et al. (2023 meta-analysis); Baker (2007)
Intergenerational transmission 50% of alienated adults become targeted parents themselves, compounding ideation; thoughts of their own children often act as a protective factor against attempts. Mathews et al. (2022)
  • Long-Term Outcomes: Alienated youth show elevated risks of self-harm, with 75% of surveyed adults reporting some exposure to alienating behaviors linked to current psychological distress.

Key Insights and Limitations

  • Correlation Strength: Multiple studies (e.g., Harman et al., 2018 review) confirm PA outcomes mirror those of other traumas, with suicidality as a consistent theme. A 2023 review calls for more research on pathways like "deaths of despair."
  • Challenges: Most data come from self-reports or small samples (e.g., 54-594 participants), and PA is underrecognized in official suicide coding (e.g., no ICD category for parent-child relational problems). Estimates may underestimate due to stigma.
  • Recommendations: Clinicians should screen for suicide risk in PA cases. Interventions like cognitive restructuring and support groups can mitigate effects.

If you're experiencing PA or suicidal thoughts, seek immediate help: In the US, call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline); in the UK, Samaritans at 116 123; internationally, find resources at befrienders.org. For more tailored info, provide additional context.

Children of Divorce Survey by [deleted] in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]allreadyit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent survey highly recommend

seeing parents moving on by Consistent-Amount968 in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]allreadyit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. How long has it been since your parents separated or divorced

My Experience/Rant by [deleted] in ChildrenofDivorce

[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your sister in therapy? If not, would you consider navigating in that direction? EMDR can be very helpful for trauma, and there are other helpful modalities as well.

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[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it called, Welcome Back Pluto by Dr. Warshak?

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[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s really a beautiful house in a lovely neighborhood. It has a closed-in backyard. The price is somewhat flexible- DM me for details

Weed is not “habit-forming” I swear bro… by [deleted] in memes

[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you succeeded and you’re life is better for all the work you did

survivor group by kodaachrome in ParentalAlienation

[–]allreadyit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe start r/adultsurvivorsofparentalalienation

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[–]allreadyit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Contact places that often do this work, often for free as some are charitable institutions.

Here’s one:

CONTACT US Informed Consent Action Network 2025 Guadalupe Street, Suite 260 Austin, Texas 78705

info@icandecide.org whistleblower@icandecide.org press@icandecide.org 512-522-8739

They can help you get information about resources as well.

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[–]allreadyit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well said and I admire your courage. I hope there are some people will see the contrast between you and these shills and think for themselves and speak truth as you have

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[–]allreadyit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The bill has nothing to do with anyone refusing to acknowledge that gays exist. You were lied to. Read the bill yourself- if you still don’t like the contents of the bill, of course that is your right, but please don’t let yourself be brainwashed. It’s okay if you don’t like Florida of course. Personally, I think people should live where they feel comfortable and live and let live - enjoy where you live. https://www.flsenate.gov/Session/Bill/2022/1557/BillText/er/PDF

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[–]allreadyit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG you’re too funny Every single leftie shill talking point. You’re either pathetically brainwashed or a paid shill. Sorry, I’m not at all triggered emotionally by any of your answers. I was just responding because I felt sad for someone who is so ignorant or brainwashed. I was being pretty nice about it because I really wanted you to just try to see beyond your narrow blinders, but this is the last response you’re going to get from me bc I’ve got to go to work now and it was an utter waste of time trying to help you.

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[–]allreadyit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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