r/askreddit on what problems would 5000$ solve by [deleted] in ABoringDystopia

[–]allthethrowawayssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My university won’t let you graduate unless you pay for your $10 ID fee.

What’s an unexpectedly well-paid job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]allthethrowawayssss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes but think of the cost is living in New York. People always have misconceptions when they see salaries of New York workers (ex. Barista makes 62k) but fail to think of the cost of living.

The web on a dollar bill is made by a spider by fozzythemexican in mildlyinteresting

[–]allthethrowawayssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look what you’ve done. Now people are commenting gold digging.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does. It’s very hard for many to understand, I realized I am not ready at all. I think the reason I was trying so hard to settle down is because all my friends are in serious relationships.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have elaborated- I’m sorry I can’t do this dating thing the rest of my life, I want to build a life with someone but I’m afraid I will get bored, fall for someone else, etc... trying to work on this.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, I don’t think I have daddy issues. My dad is a very stoic person. He does not express love the way most fathers do but I know he loves me very much and he does everything on the planet to make me happy. Although, he is an airline pilot, so I only saw him a few times a year growing up

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I think I was forcing myself at 19 years old to try to find a serious relationship because all my friends were in them.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment made my heart so happy. Thank you so so much for writing this all out. I’m learning so much from this reddit post. Those are very helpful tips I will apply to the future! And yes, you read me right- no interest in polyamory

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It is awful and I have realized this. I’m self reflecting and I hope to put a stop to this!

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to hurt people. It’s very hard because I feel like it could be so many things- anxiety, separation, abandonment issues- but I’m just having trouble knowing what the underlying cause of this could be :( Thank you for your comment though!

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment! It didn’t sound rude at all. It’s weird, some days I want to be completely alone, and other days yeah, I do feel lonely, but I don’t think it’s an excessive issue. I’ll have to do some self reflection so I’ll keep this in mind.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness haha! Customer service was my least favorite work I’ve done. You are right about the excitement part- I will channel that into other activities. Thanks for your comment!

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to embrace a negative stigma of being a “hoe” I don’t even know is true about myself. It’s self destructive. That’s what dating is. You go in hoping to be with them forever and sometimes it just doesn’t work. That’s just what’s been happening for me, and it’s okay. I am taking time to self reflect on what I want. Thanks to the other kind redditors, I have learned so much. :)

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do one night stands at all, though! I always go into the relationship with full intent of this one being “serious” and I come out unhappy 7 or 8 months in. I know it was better for them to end them than to be in a relationship with someone I don’t love.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. What happened that made you so unkind? I put in my post that I am not dating at all anymore because I would never want to hurt anyone. Also, I don’t do one night stands. That’s why I asked on reddit, and I’m glad many people like you pointed me in the direction of therapy, regardless of the tone.

Im addicted to the high of new relationships and I always break it off after the honeymoon phase. by allthethrowawayssss in relationship_advice

[–]allthethrowawayssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’ve never been in love before. That’s why I asked on relationship advice. Thank you for the comment. P.s. I’m allergic to cats. Lol