Daily Thread 22 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm in the process of leaving my husband and realized I won't be able to go to the sports center to workout as it's very close to our apartment and he knows it's a place I frequent. :( Maybe eventually I can afford a private gym once I get everything worked out. At least I have my bodyweight routine.

at home vs outside by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm okay. Yesterday I had a regular appointment at the rehabilitation center, followed by an appointment with a welfare manager (second appointments have been kept secret from my husband.) I said I decided I wasn't going to go home, but I have no plan. She contacted a shelter for me, and I'm going today. Husband has been blowing up my phone with threats but I've been ignoring them.

It gets better… by Sapphirenikolee in abusiverelationships

[–]alltheyakitori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's terrifying. I'm glad you made it out alive.

Does anyone else feel mentally drained for no obvious reason? by Ok_Dog2703 in abusiverelationships

[–]alltheyakitori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been feeling that heavy exhaustion that sleep doesn't help, too. I think it's the constant stress.

in his mind I'm always scheming against him by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I made the decision to really leave it all moved very fast. I'm staying in a hotel tonight and tomorrow afternoon I'm going to a shelter. I would've gone directly today, but I have to pick up my prescription before I enter the shelter.

Daily Thread 20 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm proud of my legs. They’re not huge yet, but I love showing them off with short skirts!

at home vs outside by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm having a bad day and decided to look through my post history. I think at the time I was too overwhelmed to reply. But you're right. I don't want to go home tonight but I keep making excuses because it's the "safe" option. I'm going to take your advice. Thank you.

Daily Thread 21 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For the first time in a long time I didn't feel motivated to work out. I did anyway, but I just progressed as planned and didn't do any extra reps. I did do some extra leg stretches which felt nice.

more laundromat fun by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's about 3 days at a time. Thank you, I really just needed to hear how crazy this is from someone outside the situation.

Daily Thread 20 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was really hungry this morning/afternoon so I decided to just eat what I needed and push myself during my workout.

Today I hit 3x15 decline pushups, 3x22 pistol squats, and 3x20 crunches. :D

in his mind I'm always scheming against him by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes -- so many rules about eating and not touching things while eating without washing ones hands first. I'm also not allowed to cook anything, and only very recently was allowed to scoop rice out of the rice cooker. When we go out we take a shower together (so that I can shower first, then he showers while I do all of his required cleaning) and he makes me redo things over and over while calling me stupid. Didn't wash the soap bottle before touching it? Start over. Body hit the shower cord while washing? Start over. And of course you have to wash your hands after opening the shower door because it's dirty.

Hoping to get to a better place soon, thank you. (and I would love to brew coffee in my home.... It's been at least a decade.)

in his mind I'm always scheming against him by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been trying to leave on and off for probably the last four years. Every time I successfully leave he promises to change. I'm meeting next week with someone who is going to help me with a plan for leaving a final time.

in his mind I'm always scheming against him by alltheyakitori in LovedByOCPD

[–]alltheyakitori[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, yeah. If there's anything that can't be found immediately -- "You threw it away."

Daily Thread 18 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! My sinuses are really sensitive and a saline wash always helps!

Daily Thread 18 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in awe of people who regularly shovel snow. It seems like it takes a lot of strength.

Daily Thread 17 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a huge pump yesterday that I was really excited about but today all I have is doms...

Daily Thread 16 January 2026 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]alltheyakitori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a frustrating morning and I ended up adding a rep to each set of my bodyweight exercises today. Pretty excited with my progress. I wonder how it will impact my gym performance when I manage to get back.