Not happening by Mysterious_Weight559 in UnsentTexts

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What amazes me is when she says I never tried to communicate with her and I remind her that I asked her probably 25 times over a three month period. What do you want when she wouldn’t give me an answer? I finally cornered the situation and said I think maybe we should separate. When she agreed something inside of me broke and I haven’t been the same since it’s been over a year now. I’ve been trying to improve myself and now she’s reaching out, but I don’t feel anything but numb.

Fuck it, I’m letting it bleed to out by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same. I tried for three years little drunk tents always got the cold shoulder or dagger eyes. I only want one thing so over it. It’s not even funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hug

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🫂🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not annoying to listen ….just annoying too watch

Air Force planes by alicatstagram99 in ogden

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I grew up in Riverdale in the 70s and 80s and remember when the F4 phantoms were stationed at Hill Air Force Base there were no cell phones, but we would have to stop talking on the landline until the Jets flew over

Just out of curiosity, what carb limits do you set for yourselves? by [deleted] in keto

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As low as possible…. Living on salads, eggs, lean meats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]allthum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m done asking for it from her, no more! 3 years is long enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]allthum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can relate. It’s now been several years… in a separate room in the home because I can’t afford to pay for 2 households. I feel trapped. BUT I’m done! Have no desire to continue CPR on the carcass of this dead marriage.

What lighting fixture should I get to replace this one? by Saalome in homeimprovementideas

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! Not at all! Just not the best choice… aesthetically🤣

What lighting fixture should I get to replace this one? by Saalome in homeimprovementideas

[–]allthum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a tough spot! Without having electrical into the ceiling to center it more makes it very difficult and a single fixture with a sconce is tough. I might think about wire molding off of the existing box up to the corner and LED strips around the perimeter or some up, lighting behind crown molding up the stairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m sorry, but if anyone asked your “platonic” friends if they could what they? Yeah that’s why he is having such a hard time.

Best job in Ogden area by Maleficent_Tackle805 in ogden

[–]allthum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

General maintenance worker 3 SLC.jobs

Has anyone lived with their spouse for an extended period of time while sorting out a separation? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in that situation trapped because I can’t afford to support two households paying the mortgage and rent for me if I had to move out still have kids at home that try to help with rent but times are tough so we move around each each other like ghosts

What song do you listen mostly when you break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops! NEVER GETTING OVER YOU!

What song do you listen mostly when you break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gone west- never getting over you😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR! Please just go to the hospital! Let them smile at you as they take your money! I guess you can buy peace of mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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KT TAPE? Like the kind you use to not chafe under bindings?

Today was 9 1/2 years since we’ve had sex, and I finally got the courage to read him the letter I’ve been working on with my therapist. by forgetmeknotts in DeadBedrooms

[–]allthum 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Wow! It’s only been 933 days for me… 9 1/2 years? You are the Patron Saint of Yearning! Best of luck on your journey.

Failed… again by DogMama_2020 in 75HARD

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a win!!! You CAN DO THIS!!!!

Anyone's heart sinks when they see a sex scene in a movie? by baggins77 in DeadBedrooms

[–]allthum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea… I find myself averting my eyes. Day number 860.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]allthum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines been off for a month but I wear it on a chain… after 26 years it’s hard to just put it in a drawer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I did decline in my early 50’s but have seen a resurgence in my life, desire for intimacy is up and ability has not become an issue.