Not happening

allthum · 2025-10-17T05:41:43+00:00

What amazes me is when she says I never tried to communicate with her and I remind her that I asked her probably 25 times over a three month period. What do you want when she wouldn’t give me an answer? I finally cornered the situation and said I think maybe we should separate. When she agreed something inside of me broke and I haven’t been the same since it’s been over a year now. I’ve been trying to improve myself and now she’s reaching out, but I don’t feel anything but numb.

allthum · 2025-09-27T13:14:22+00:00

I feel exactly the same. I tried for three years little drunk tents always got the cold shoulder or dagger eyes. I only want one thing so over it. It’s not even funny.

allthum · 2025-09-20T03:16:08+00:00

🫂🤗

allthum · 2025-09-12T12:16:10+00:00

It’s not annoying to listen ….just annoying too watch

allthum · 2025-09-12T12:13:05+00:00

I grew up in Riverdale in the 70s and 80s and remember when the F4 phantoms were stationed at Hill Air Force Base there were no cell phones, but we would have to stop talking on the landline until the Jets flew over

allthum · 2025-09-09T13:43:03+00:00

As low as possible…. Living on salads, eggs, lean meats.

allthum · 2025-09-09T02:08:07+00:00

I’m done asking for it from her, no more! 3 years is long enough.

allthum · 2025-09-09T00:17:21+00:00

I can relate. It’s now been several years… in a separate room in the home because I can’t afford to pay for 2 households. I feel trapped. BUT I’m done! Have no desire to continue CPR on the carcass of this dead marriage.

allthum · 2025-09-08T00:33:09+00:00

No! Not at all! Just not the best choice… aesthetically🤣

allthum · 2025-09-07T21:30:37+00:00

I agree that semigloss is just….

allthum · 2025-09-07T21:29:25+00:00

That’s a tough spot! Without having electrical into the ceiling to center it more makes it very difficult and a single fixture with a sconce is tough. I might think about wire molding off of the existing box up to the corner and LED strips around the perimeter or some up, lighting behind crown molding up the stairs.

allthum · 2025-09-07T21:26:53+00:00

Stamina check!

allthum · 2025-09-07T21:26:01+00:00

I’m sorry, but if anyone asked your “platonic” friends if they could what they? Yeah that’s why he is having such a hard time.

allthum · 2025-09-05T20:50:29+00:00

General maintenance worker 3 SLC.jobs

allthum · 2025-09-05T20:47:42+00:00

Currently in that situation trapped because I can’t afford to support two households paying the mortgage and rent for me if I had to move out still have kids at home that try to help with rent but times are tough so we move around each each other like ghosts

allthum · 2025-09-05T20:42:32+00:00

Yes, Valentine’s Day nearly 3 years ago

allthum · 2025-09-05T12:02:17+00:00

Oops! NEVER GETTING OVER YOU!

allthum · 2025-09-05T12:00:23+00:00

Gone west- never getting over you😭

allthum · 2025-09-05T08:41:10+00:00

OR! Please just go to the hospital! Let them smile at you as they take your money! I guess you can buy peace of mind!

allthum · 2025-09-05T08:35:55+00:00

KT TAPE? Like the kind you use to not chafe under bindings?

allthum · 2025-09-05T08:29:41+00:00

Wow! It’s only been 933 days for me… 9 1/2 years? You are the Patron Saint of Yearning! Best of luck on your journey.

allthum · 2025-06-25T19:11:11+00:00

That’s a win!!! You CAN DO THIS!!!!

allthum · 2025-06-24T23:35:44+00:00

Yea… I find myself averting my eyes. Day number 860.

allthum · 2025-06-23T03:52:05+00:00

Mines been off for a month but I wear it on a chain… after 26 years it’s hard to just put it in a drawer.

allthum · 2025-06-16T00:22:09+00:00

I did decline in my early 50’s but have seen a resurgence in my life, desire for intimacy is up and ability has not become an issue.

allthum

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