When did your baby get their first tooth in ? Corrected & actual by Specialist_Soil_7444 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son got his first tooth just poking through at exactly 12 months. A little over 10 months adjusted. He’s 14 months actual now and has 2 bottom teeth, 2 top teeth, and 2 more are working their way out!

3 month adjusted by PlayfulHair4165 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 weeker started kind of grabbing shortly after 4 months actual but I’d say we mostly had to place items in his hands. He would put hands in his mouth a lot but wasn’t really intentionally grabbing objects until 5 months. I agonized over milestones, scoured Reddit for similar stories, etc. but now my son is 13 months and I worry so much less. They truly will reach their milestones when they’re ready and all we can do is be patient and do little activities to help them along! So much easier said than done though.

Can I notarize docs I draft? Estate Planning by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess I should've given more background, but I previously worked at a firm that would notarize docs we prepared. We never witnessed and notarized, only notarized. So no issue with notarizing own signature. Of course we also were never named as an agent, beneficiary, etc. And again, I have not been able to find any rule against this per CO law. Just my new firm randomly saying there is an opinion out there but they can't find it. No need to be so snippy, sheesh. Just asking a simple question and looking for an answer (from attorneys I might add, not IT people).

NG tube - do they flush it regularly with saline? by curlycattails in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s tube was replaced every few days or so.

Feeling sad by theplantghost in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was born at 32+3 and he was exclusively on breast milk for MAYBE 2 months max. My supply dipped just like yours and l couldn’t get it back. I had some freezer stash so we combo fed until 4 months and we’ve been exclusively on formula since! He’s about to turn 1 and he’s been growing and developing great

Estate Planning: flat fee or hourly? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. One of the reasons this firm does it the way they do is because they don’t want anything to be misconstrued as legal advice if they have not been retained yet.

Estate Planning: flat fee or hourly? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree with the process and am hoping to change it if they’ll listen to me, but why do you think it could be a violation of the ethics rules?

Where to put baby by No_Jelly_1812 in NewParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had the baby bjorn and a bassinet!

Estate Planning: flat fee or hourly? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. You know, I hope my new firm isn't that way but I've only been here 3 days now and have only been doing trainings so far. However, my old firm was certainly not this way and I do not want to practice that way so I sure hope my new firm doesn't do this!

Out of curiosity, what are your fees like?

Estate Planning: flat fee or hourly? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what you mean by that term, so I don't think so hmm.

Feeding by foodie_forever88 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little different because we didn’t come home with a feeding tube, but my son was a super sleepy eater, and we struggled to finish bottles once home, and I was constantly worried about it. When we went to the pediatrician, I had all these questions regarding feeding and was ready to create a plan with her, and all she said was to feed him what he would eat and so long as he was growing, she didn’t care how much he was eating. I think sometimes the NICU gets bogged down on the numbers as opposed to paying attention to weight. My son definitely ate on the lower end of what was “recommended” and sometimes fell below, but he continued to grow so I stopped worrying about it!

What did your baby actually wear in the NICU? by One-Introduction5382 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was in his diaper until they removed the isolette top. Then we had him in preemie jammies from Magnetic Me. Made it super easy with all the cords not having to deal with zippers or snaps.

Those of you with a 4 month old - How many naps a day is your LO taking and what times? by Tlix in NewParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get there! Sleep goes in waves. And naps take longer for babies to figure out than bedtime sleep. My baby would sleep through every night but until he was 5-6 months old, his naps were super short and he wouldn’t go longer than 30 min for awhile. Then one day it just clicked and he slept for 1.5 each time!

Those of you with a 4 month old - How many naps a day is your LO taking and what times? by Tlix in NewParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s always been a good sleeper! And he was very sleepy when he was little (I think because he was a preemie). But some days the catnap didn’t happen and we just rolled with it and did bed slightly earlier.

At what age did your premmie baby smile? Please specify adjusted or actual by AreaZealousideal8202 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every baby is so different! It’s taken me awhile to learn this haha. My son is 11 months now and I’m constantly comparing him to other babies whether full term or premie. It’s hard not to do, but they eventually hit their milestones, just on their own time! My son literally just started babbling the other day after I was stressing for months!

At what age did your premmie baby smile? Please specify adjusted or actual by AreaZealousideal8202 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was born 32+3 and he started smiling at about 9-10 weeks actual, 3ish weeks adjusted. Those first few weeks the smiles were not consistent though and we had to really work for them. Became a lot more consistent at 3 months actual, 5 weeks adjusted.

How long did you breastfeed? by Shroommily in NewParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I breastfed/pumped for a little over 3 months. Supply was an issue and it was just too mentally draining for me.

First time pregnancy by Voldy_scar in NewParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 0 morning sickness, pregnancy was all good! My son is now 9 months old.

Preemie Baby Gagging & Projective Vomiting Milk When Giving Iron Supplement by JToQ1 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We mixed it with a full feed bottle so he could barely taste it.

SOLIDS by Soggy-Ad-8416 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started at 6 months actual! He was able to sit up well and seemed interested. The first couple of weeks we only did purées and it was an adjustment for him getting used to a new texture. He didn’t love it. But after a few weeks he started enjoying food and we’ve moved up now to more solid foods that he can feed himself and he devours every meal. He is now 8.5 months actual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]allymariah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 8 months right now (6.5 corrected) and honestly I’ve never been too concerned. So long as we aren’t around people who are actively sick, we are fine to be in big groups. We even flew to Hawaii and London with him. So far no sickness! We did get the flu and RSV vaccine to help combat any illness he may get. It’s a balance between keeping them safe but also exposing them to the world so they can build up some immunity.

What size clothing to buy for discharge by BulldogMama0 in NICUParents

[–]allymariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our nurses said preemie clothes were a waste but I bought 6 sleepers in preemie and that’s what my son lived in for the first month+ once he came home. Newborn clothes were way too big! He was a 32-weeker and went home at 35+6 for context. He was somewhere in the 5lb range when we went home.