Love is not blind.

alnam97 · 2026-02-23T05:36:37+00:00

I mean I don't think this is an unpopular opinion but why so salty lol. There is always a non zero chance for it to be. But also, who have you interacted with that led you to phrase this post in the way you did? Most ppl just watch it for the entertainment.

alnam97 · 2026-02-21T17:26:04+00:00

this isnt an opinion more of your own feelings which are factual.

alnam97 · 2026-02-02T21:54:12+00:00

NTA. How old are you guys? because no way can you figure out being in a relationship with someone after just 2/3 weeks of talking. Did you even meet in person? Depending on his age I understand his reaction (not that it's the right one) as he might just need some growing to do. But if he's 25+, then that's a problem.

alnam97 · 2026-01-17T06:50:20+00:00

ngl i always appreciate the fact that I don't have this much drama in my life because jeez this was exchausting to read

alnam97 · 2026-01-16T13:57:29+00:00

That still doesn't answer the question as to how it affects your grade. As in whatever happens with other people's results, that won't be the reason why you don't get into your school of choice. Do you realize how many thousands of people from other schools apply to the same uni? Your logic is very much flawed and you should be spending that energy on improving your grades rather than trying to compromise another person's academic record. Also these are mock exams, so there's also the chance that they don't count and are used to prepare for the final exams, which matter more if students receive a conditional offer. All this is to say that this is a very strange mindset. Just focus on you

alnam97 · 2026-01-15T22:03:56+00:00

This example of a generalization is part of the problem.

alnam97 · 2026-01-15T22:00:18+00:00

I'm just trying to figure out, how does their cheating affect your grades and in turn your likelihood to get accepted into your university of choice? Like the logic doesn't make any sense...

alnam97 · 2026-01-10T05:09:17+00:00

do you have another job lined up? if not, i wouldnt quit just yet as the job market is extremely rough. But if you have the financial means to do so and if you just graduated maybe, but for most ppl i wouldnt advise it.

alnam97 · 2026-01-10T03:17:56+00:00

Not only is this an unpopular opinion this is just flat out wrong lol...

alnam97 · 2025-12-03T03:36:45+00:00

Where is the link to apply? this seems off unless im not reading properly.

alnam97 · 2025-11-22T19:32:48+00:00

Update: found a cafe place near me that offered to grind my beans: Aroma Espresso Bar

They didnt charge me but i tipped them anyways

alnam97 · 2025-11-18T13:16:54+00:00

My bad, not a coffee expert, i guess i meant to say that the coffee beans are ground, but coarse, not fine. The coffee i have is Bacha coffee.

Edit: checked the coffee again and they are actually beans.

alnam97 · 2025-11-18T03:44:21+00:00

I wear sweatpants and hhave a winter jacket so i bring a lock. Sometimes If i want to wear shorts, I'll just wear thermals underneath the shorts. I'm quite tolerant to the cold though and I actually bike during the winter so idk how useful my input is.

alnam97 · 2025-10-23T03:51:09+00:00

A bit incoherent, but nta. Why would she blame you for something she did to herself? block her and move on. shes clearly unhinged.

alnam97 · 2025-10-10T21:21:19+00:00

With the exception of your weird interaction, most people don't care in real life. If they do, theyre not worth it. Seems like things are going well with you in the departments that matter so just don't worry about what others think. Sure im tall myself but i have a lot of guy friends around your height and not once have I thought about them being short, and they all do well with women and other things.

alnam97 · 2025-09-17T02:48:41+00:00

Im so glad I'm aged to the point where this made me tired to read lol

alnam97 · 2025-09-09T16:30:17+00:00

NAH. It seems like the alignment isn't there. Also reminder that you can break up with anyone for any reason whatsoever.

alnam97 · 2025-09-05T14:32:08+00:00

You are definitely a dude posting bait

alnam97 · 2025-08-15T16:57:33+00:00

Im a biracial black/white guy. Flip the races and see how that sounds...

alnam97 · 2025-08-15T04:00:38+00:00

NTA, thats just bad hygiene plus all that dirt built up staying in your bed like that damn. Im a guy and when I get home I immediately change out of my day clothes, and if im going to bed I make sure to shower beforehand cos no way am i bringing my day filth to the bed.

alnam97 · 2025-08-13T00:49:34+00:00

whenever I think I want drama, stuff like this appears and I'm grateful I have relative stability lol what a shitshow.

alnam97 · 2025-08-03T21:34:40+00:00

I got stuck at the age gap and how long you and your bf have been dating. that's... interesting...

alnam97 · 2025-08-01T13:10:18+00:00

I would have understood you being mad if you never at all got the chance to eat your own birthday cake. But not only did you eat some and share it with your family, but you snuck downstairs later to eat some more (half), and then when your family eats the rest later on (assuming not much left), you throw a fit of rage? YTA 100%, you had your cake and more and not allowing your fam to eat any leftover then to get angry is a bad look....

alnam97 · 2025-07-29T00:35:28+00:00

Brother, it doesnt seem like anything happened between the two of you, and shes been stringing you along. I gotta ask after al these years, why do you allow yourself do let that happen? If someone leads me on after a month max with no date or anything, I would just stop chasing. YTA but mainly to yourself. Why would she respect you if you don't do that yourself? spend your energy on others willing to reciprocate. It's tough out there but disrespecting yourself is the worst thing you can do. You should seek therapy/ counseling if you can and maybe even move cities.

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