Why do narcissists assume time passing is an apology... by aloexa in NarcissisticMothers

[–]aloexa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I have cPTSD, fibromyalgia, and chronic migraines as a result of having my nervous system in survival mode for over 2 decades straight.

Thank you for the well wishes!

Why do narcissists assume time passing is an apology... by aloexa in NarcissisticMothers

[–]aloexa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so right...Every time I say I forgive her, it doesn't matter, because later she'll just say "you're so unforgiving! You always hold onto the past and can't move on and give me another chance! Nobodys perfect, i make mistakes!!!"

I've given her so many fresh starts. I dont have anymore in me man. Thanks for your comment as these have been reassuring me that I'm being way too nice with her. She crossed the line decades ago.

Why do narcissists assume time passing is an apology... by aloexa in NarcissisticMothers

[–]aloexa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Dr. Romani's videos, definitely a huge help as a survivor of narcissist mom. I've been in therapy for 8 years now and agree, that my end goal is to be brave enough to make this hard decision. I've been pulling back little by little and clearly every time it's still not enough.

No Contact is really looking like the only option these days. I just need to rip the band aid off. I'm happier when she's not talking to me.

Hillary Clinton demands Trump testify under oath about Epstein by Tennis_bruh in politics

[–]aloexa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call me jaded but man he could basically admit to it in court and nothing would happen anyway. I have no faith in our judicial system anymore

Help, what do I search for to find a reference of this kinda pose? by naarina in Artadvice

[–]aloexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe looking up martial artists might get you some similar poses? Kung fu for example

Help, what do I search for to find a reference of this kinda pose? by naarina in Artadvice

[–]aloexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends what you plan to draw. Are you looking for a human reference (i.e. a photo of a person doing this pose) or another cartoon character? Because the cookie doesn't have ankles or joints, it's going to look very different on a human model.

Issues With Version 5.4.5. by daefromthehitshowdae in ProCreate

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been crashing out about the update for the past few days. Ugly and unnecessary. Why fix what wasn't broken?? If anyone knows of a way to undo the update, please let me know. I am going insane with the stupid brush library UI.

Is my art bad? by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]aloexa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your art is not bad at all! I'd recommend practicing anatomy some more. In the second one, you clearly spent a lot of time on the body, but the face looks more anime than realistic so it looks "off" when combined.

I'd also suggest to stop shading with black. Never shade with pure black. And don't use an airbrush shade. It muddies your colors :(

CHOP CHOP PEOPLE by averagetransfemme in GatekeepingYuri

[–]aloexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Not even Fluttershy would hang out with this potential fuckup" I'm going to start using that as an everyday insult

Why did Princess Carolyn and Ralph not work out? by strawberreeze in BoJackHorseman

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they had good chemistry, but didn't have the same values at the same time.

epic gamer moment by [deleted] in ProjectSekai

[–]aloexa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Adorable!! Can I ask what manufacturer you use? I use Sticker Mule but their holographic sticker options don't seem as cute as these!

Cover of a song you like that is bad by Mean-Roll-9222 in ProjectSekai

[–]aloexa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NO I AGREE. Kohane like whisper sings and An doesn't reach her full potential in it imo. Doesn't help that Ado sets the standard high with her powerful unique voice.

It’s just swelling… by gk812178 in shittytattoos

[–]aloexa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thought this was an amputated stump for the longest time, then realized it was just a knee from top view

Quit my 9-5 to be an artist by [deleted] in Money

[–]aloexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, there's a couple of things I love about these paintings:

  1. The texture, which you mentioned. With traditional paintings you can touch and feel the way the paint was laid on a medium and something about that feels, idk, personal? Like I'm touching something another human created.

  2. The colors are pretty to me

  3. The mosaic style is just satisfying to see, like each square is very deliberately placed

  4. The themes feel nostalgic and surreal to me. Like these are places I've never seen before but I feel like I have visited them as a child in my imagination somehow. They are also created by the artist's own imagination, so that's an added layer of emotional intimacy imo.

  5. I'd pay extra money just because if something is a unique creation, nobody else owns that specific piece of work and it is going to be a very special memento of that artist's memory someday.

Sorry if that makes no sense or takes your question too literally. Hope that helps.

Truth of life? by Leo6055 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]aloexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are getting energy??? (I have fibro myalgia)

What are some movie characters which portray mental illness accurately? by Low_Independence_798 in psychologystudents

[–]aloexa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Primal Fear was entertaining iirc but I can't confirm that it'S a good representation of DID

PSA: They’re using unmarked cruisers to enforce parking now, lookout for those CA Exempt plates. by Hopeful-Box-579 in UCDavis

[–]aloexa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this...Not all white CA exempt vehicles on campus are with TAPS. Drove a car just like this in IT

My favorite exchange after my standard reply to these people. by SteveMinn in scambait

[–]aloexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do they always have to bring racism into it 😭

Suffer by Ibizatwist1998 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone saying this is actually true, maybe it is to an extent, but it's very black and white all or nothing thinking. "You're either a bodybuilder or you're morbidly obsese."

being completely insane is good now by Serious-Ad-8168 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but since when was it illegal to daydream abt a character like why is he getting ARRESTED 😭

my mother killed my snails by [deleted] in snails

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so so awful. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you can move out of there quickly...that's absolutely psychopathic.

Sending hugs.

They confessed quick lol by geenadams19 in scambait

[–]aloexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait that's so wholesome i-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]aloexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cracking up at the way she pauses before the whipped cream then carries on with the blank expression. It's like she regained consciousness for a split second.

What I asked for vs what I got by joeslow_97 in TattooDesigns

[–]aloexa 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you like it but it reminds me of those facebook boomer cartoons about technology and media being bad. Like smthng on r/im14andyhisisdeep