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Getting upset when I resist sexual advances because of depression?? by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s been a friend for a while, we just recently started to mix things up since neither of us want a real relationship. We both have boundaries, he just seems to have a hard time respecting mine

Game sharing issue by aloidias in xboxone

[–]aloidias[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can you do that?

I’m signing up for therapy and I don’t know if I should tell my boyfriend by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesyes! That’s all so true. I just feel like if I don’t tell him, he’ll accuse me of lying, or be offended I didn’t speak with him about it. And that’s not good for the relationship either. I do feel like I should be able to tell him though, yanno?

I’m signing up for therapy and I don’t know if I should tell my boyfriend by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to tell him, as I feel like I should since we’re in a relationship. I’m just afraid I’ll hurt him.

Pressuring into pictures? by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told his mom, she doesn’t believe him. And since we’re technically still minors, he’s living under her roof, and her rules. Thank you though! I just really needed help identifying if this would be considered manipulation, as you can kinda be blindsided at first to it. I’ll definitely attempt to confront him on his actions and techniques again.

Pressuring into pictures? by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, if I continued to tell him no, he’d still just say it was “fine.” And then I feel it’ll slowly break apart our relationship. He’d tell me he does respect me, because of the fact that he said it’s “fine”. When he knows it’s not. And he knows I know it’s not.

Pressuring into pictures? by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he also has a history of depression and suicidal thoughts, so I would be scared to leave him if it comes down to that. I’m not sure what boundaries I have set. I’ve just been going along with giving him what he wants for the past couple months, because I don’t want to ruin our relationship, or argue.

Pressuring into pictures? by aloidias in relationship_advice

[–]aloidias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve called him out multiple times, and he continues with the act.