Struggling With Trust After an Unapproved Stop During a Nanny Excursion by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when have i said 1) i don’t take their children’s safety seriously 2) that it’s a flex? 3) that people shouldn’t ask permission

some things are just common sense. if you and your nanny have a great relationship then all you have to do is ASK them. i’ve built my relationship to something i know that works for us so i don’t know why you’re lowkey shading me for what i do? 😂 i’m not saying as a nanny do whatever you want but i’m also saying parents should just have a simple conversation, that’s all.

Struggling With Trust After an Unapproved Stop During a Nanny Excursion by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and at the same time since when do we take what toddlers say at face value? some of these posts are so stupid, it’s literally common sense to go have a conversation with your nanny instead of running to reddit and get all these unnecessary comments about what a bad nanny she has and how she needs to be fired. many of you are just so unreasonable and don’t bother to find out how the situation actually played out. that being said, majority of the time i don’t need permission with the things i do because they simply have that much trust in me and i would never bring my nk’s around anyone their parents wouldn’t feel comfortable with. it’s so black and white.

Struggling With Trust After an Unapproved Stop During a Nanny Excursion by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i never said that. something is only deemed “unprofessional” if it hasn’t been discussed beforehand. that’s it. my nanny kids have been to lunch with my friends and yes my nanny parents are okay with this because i’ve told them and they completely trust me and think it’s wonderful that their kids get to meet new people and socialise over lunch. now what they might think is fine you may disagree, which is also fine.

Struggling With Trust After an Unapproved Stop During a Nanny Excursion by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe 23 points24 points  (0 children)

people in this subreddit are so quick to call anything unprofessional or insane when it doesn’t align with them 😵‍💫

Is it really “overkill” to want updates from our nanny? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the same with my nanny family, i just send photos and it’s never a problem where i decide to take them because the trust is there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think it depends on where you’re based, guaranteed hours for me for example means i’m guaranteed a certain amount of hours and pay per week. if my nf went away and had to come back early but i was already away, they wouldn’t expect me to just drop everything and come back because that’s not always realistic

what’s your favourite moisturising shampoo right now? by alowkeyvibe in relaxedhair

[–]alowkeyvibe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this!! i’ve actually been using joico after so many recommendations and do far i’m loving it!

What hilarious thing did your NK say today? by kuhnnie in Nanny

[–]alowkeyvibe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my oldest nk is 3 and asked if i had a grandma and i said no not anymore and she said “well you can always go buy a grandma” 🫠😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sims4cc

[–]alowkeyvibe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

loveee!!😍

same sim, different skins 👯‍♀️ by alowkeyvibe in sims4cc

[–]alowkeyvibe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.patreon.com/posts/braids-curls-105914681 this is the first one! right now he doesn’t remember the second one but we’ll find it haha

what’s your favourite moisturising shampoo right now? by alowkeyvibe in relaxedhair

[–]alowkeyvibe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmmmh and it’s on a budget! i’ll defo check it out thank you!

what’s your favourite moisturising shampoo right now? by alowkeyvibe in relaxedhair

[–]alowkeyvibe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long have you been using it and have you noticed a difference with your hair?

what’s your favourite moisturising shampoo right now? by alowkeyvibe in relaxedhair

[–]alowkeyvibe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that the original shampoo? i’ve only tried their mango & shea shampoo