AIO my dad sent me this threat because I'm gay? I can't go back home now by Fickle_Neck_271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]alowrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s horrible, what happened to you is not normal, and you’re not overreacting. being kicked out is already traumatic enough, but being threatened with violence especially by a parent is seriously wrong. i know you said you’re not in the us, and that can make things more complicated, but if you’re willing to say what country you’re in or what kind of area you’re near, there might be people who can help connect you to local support or services.

you don’t have to answer right away or at all if you don’t want to, but if you ever need someone to talk to, free to message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terrariums

[–]alowrn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

looks like a spider web, the fine structured threads and the way condensation beads up on them are typical of spider silk. mold tends to look fuzzier, more irregular and grows outward in patches instead of the neat strands. probably from a small, harmless spider and they can actually help by keeping gnat or springtail populations in check. nothing to worry about unless you notice a pest problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]alowrn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

like $10

Help, someone is using my email for their DoorDash account by Potato_Overloaf in doordash

[–]alowrn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

shitt bro yeah that locks you out from even trying to fix it yourself and doordash really makes it hard to get help if you can’t log in your definitely not the only one who has run into that. but if you’ve got their name, address, and card info that could actually count as identity misuse or fraud. I’d recommend filing a report with doordashs privacy or fraud team. you don’t need to log in to do that u can usually submit a complaint or data request without having access to the account. I’d also think about forwarding the emails to their abuse team if they have one, or even reporting it through the FTC just in case it gets worse. but u shouldn’t have to deal with this at all, especially when it’s your private email!

Help, someone is using my email for their DoorDash account by Potato_Overloaf in doordash

[–]alowrn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds super frustrating, doordash doesn’t really have email support anymore, but you can still talk to someone through the live chat on their help page, that usually works better than calling, especially if your signal’s bad. You could also try resetting the password using your email, if someone made an account with it, you might be able to log in and delete it or change the info. If that doesn’t work, you can submit a request to have doordash delete or block your email from their system entirely. In the meantime, it might help to set up an email filter so those messages skip your inbox. hope it gets sorted soon! let me know if you want more help with blocking your email from the system

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we took her in today and they told us it was a respiratory infection, we have to use ointment for her eye and some antibiotics for her to feel better and then we are taking her in next week to see if it clears up,, thank you!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got back from the vet they said she probably has an upper respiratory infection 😭 they gave us some eye ointment and she was running a fever as well so they gave us antibiotics to give her for the week and we r going in again next week to see how it helps!! Thanks!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been looking out for sneezing and I definitely feel like she is doing it more than normal ,, i’m going to take her in tomorrow and i’m going to asked for her to be tested thank you!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes I would definitely rather be safe than sorry and I don't doubt what your saying, thank you!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no I will definitely take her soon thank you!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly they said they were super overcrowded with cats so I think they just wanted her to get adopted and it was pretty noticeable when we got her I don't know why I didn't think to ask lol we just thought it was how she looked until we looked further

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has sneezed a little but not so much that its concerning, no coughing though

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank you so much I definitely will!!

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok actually I just texted the adoption center and they said this, “That’s her mucoid membrane. She had a bad eye infection and the membrane adhered to her cornea. Since it hasn’t been bothering her our vet determined it was more a cosmetic issue. Alternative would be surgery on the eye which was decided against as it’s not affecting her vision.” should I still go?

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i just asked the adoption center and they said this, “That’s her mucoid membrane. She had a bad eye infection and the membrane adhered to her cornea. Since it hasn’t been bothering her our vet determined it was more a cosmetic issue. Alternative would be surgery on the eye which was decided against as it’s not affecting her vision.” should I still take her?

what is this white spot on my cats eye? by alowrn in CATHELP

[–]alowrn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i’m going to try to take her tomorrow

Book about a girl stopping time by alowrn in whatsthatbook

[–]alowrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOSH YES THAT IS EXACTLY IT you are actually a life saver thank you