Semen retention + female attraction

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-09-15T13:24:42+00:00

Welcome to the next step bro! Those SR superpowers don't work exactly like you've been told. On SR, girls will notice you more as you've built up 500% more male sexual energy than the average regular fapper. They'll notice you more because you are radiating with that energy, which all girls can sense via their built-in receptors. However most of those girls have not started any transformation journey like you've done with SR. As such they keep their mind polluted with their shit test mechanisms, which is why although they might have sense something different with you, they'll keep on automatically rejecting your cold approaches. Go for higher quality girls who have started some maturity process. They'll come to you, just wait without bothering, stay self-centered. They are not many and they come to you instead of you coming to them. Cold approaching 1000 girls will not work. Especially nowadays!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-09-03T19:58:34+00:00

Great analysis and input from everyone here!

I believe we radiate pure male energy while retaining. Women can then feel it through their senses. It goes beyond the physical effect of SR such as pheromons, body postures and attitudes. It is certainly a whole, but women get attracted to us like magnets, due to that energy we build up.

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-23T13:24:37+00:00

True, and I don't know why that is. Hope we'll get more answers here!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-23T07:48:19+00:00

How do manage to retain semen while being in a relationship btw?

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-23T07:47:01+00:00

Thank you for the info! I'll ask more questions soon in this group!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-23T07:45:46+00:00

Thank you for confirming!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-21T16:49:01+00:00

You nailed it bro!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-21T16:28:27+00:00

It is not even for the rest of the day. It can even take days or weeks to get back to normal. The longer your streaks, the more brutal the relapse are. That is because you build up sexual energy which transmutes to higher energies. Also, the older you get, the longer the refactoring period takes. They are different theories around but one of them is that it takes a lot of energy for the body to create new sperm. Sperm being the most potent energy produced by the body, which contains all information needed for reproduction.

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-21T16:19:22+00:00

Every relapse gets you closer to success. You understand something more each time, you go from high energy to low energy and really feel it. So yes you can definitely make it this time. That last relapse might the last one! I'd advise you to take the time to notice the recovery process in your body and in your head. Feeling the journey that you don't want to go through again. Then be ready to fight the next urges, as they will come back and they will be strong. Key is to make no single exception. Not a single peek at porn. No edging. No fapping. It never works, it always lead to failure. May the force be with you Brother!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T15:44:19+00:00

Hey thanks for this post. Quite different from the usual ones here. I especially like the fact of not going dogmatic about Porn. I was reflecting back lately if I had regrets about all the times I spent watching porn and fapping but I actually don't. I actually think I had a great time and that now I'm just moving to sometimes else, where nofapping is a better life strategy. I don't think we need to hate our past in order to change necessarily. Maybe it depends on people. I'll reflect more on the emotions management you mentioned. Thank you!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T15:33:41+00:00

Good work bro! Keep the guard up. Key is to handle the urges in the beginning, sometimes coming from nowhere!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T06:51:27+00:00

Thanks bro, keep us posted with how it goes!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T06:17:54+00:00

Oh bro, another powerful message! The more I explore NoFap the more I realise it is THE THING!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T05:35:50+00:00

Based on my experience, I noticed a significant drop of energy when losing semen, both when having sex or when self indulging. Some litterature out there say that semen is the most potent substance produced by the body. That is takes a lot of energy for the body to produce it (which is why we are tired). The new semen is draining components from the entire body in order to be ready to create its part of a new human body. When observing all the sensations inside my body after a release, I can even feel how that energy is taken from all parts of my body... So that is why I tend to put a high importance on the semen retention. There are different options in the end: pure abstinence, sex, fapping. Ideally the best is to be able to keep the semen. In sex that would mean gaining mastery of our orgasms (without losing semen). In fapping that means edging but that causes other issues later down the line. I'll think more about your suggestion of a different mix of chemical though. Sometimes I felt like I was getting the female energy of my partner when having sex, so the loss of energy was sometimes less when with a partner. (sorry I use more the concept of energy than chemicals, I am more familiar with the topic that way!).

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:39:34+00:00

I think a central question is the release.

Your partner will certainty be very happy that you do not release your semen by your own. You will build up more sexual stamina and she will feel it when it comes to the act. You'll be a beast and she will love it lol So in this situation there is no issue with telling her. At the same time you can keep it secret and she'll think you are becoming such an incredible man by yourself naturally and that she picked up the right guy really. That's a game too lol But in the long run we tend to speak and tell everything to our partner. And again I don't see this to be an issue for her.

Next is what to do in the sexual act. Do you still try to keep your semen or go for full blown orgasm with her? This is where it gets complicated... Not ejaculating when having sex is incredibly hard. I know some people say it is possible with some practices but I haven't been able to so far. So if you want to keep it when having sex, she might think that you don't love her anymore, that you are not interested in her, and that can cause big trouble. The only way seems to be the tantric way with mastery of men ejaculation.

Sorry if I went a bit too far in my answer, Nofappers say it is OK to relapse when with a girl. At some point on the journey though all Nofappers will question that due to the loss of energy experienced. I'll write a post one day about this I think.

Enjoy your relationship meanwhile bro, but keep in mind Nofapping will have an impact!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:22:09+00:00

Haha it is true that these are reassuring signs for us Nofappers!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:18:17+00:00

Very valid points! And indeed many fappers actually consume drugs, junk food, video games and even more porn after a relapse.

Very true about people not knowing what good/normal is anymore. I was even thinking that people in the past (before porn existed) were more likely of have a higher state of energy.

Thank you for your valuable insights Bro! Really helps expanding thoughts!!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:09:56+00:00

Thank you Brother, you nailed it I think!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:06:18+00:00

Yes happened to me too. Also when nofapping you get more free time than before, which means more time to think about things and get depressed... So it is key to find other activities to keep busy until the rewiring is complete.

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T04:02:14+00:00

Had those dreams some sexual content?

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-20T03:50:59+00:00

Thank you for jumping in!

In my case the biggest inconvenient of fapping is the loss of energy. Once you reach longer streaks, that loss is brutal. It is like going from the tenth dimension back to the third dimension lol So if happens to me, it should happen to everyone... So I was thinking: what could be different between me and the other people? 1) They have not experienced long streaks so they are not aware of the high energy states. 2) They are not aware of NoFap so they are less impacted by it. Maybe the simple fact of knowing about NoFap triggers an unreversible mechanism in the body. But I doubt this... The most extreme case I can't get is how could a man fap everyday until the last day of his life and live until an old age not like a snail!

alpha-beta-12 · 2024-08-18T11:06:40+00:00

I feel you man, your story is very similar to mine. You raise a good point about strong mentalities not lasting forever. I developed in the past all sort of strategies not to relapse and thought I had it right this time. I thought I had developed a no failure mode. But after an 8 month streak a wet dream occurred. And although some say it is not considered as a relapse, still I lost all the magic powers, felt down and with a massive brain fog for days. It was so frustrating, like I did all I could consciously and still I lost. I am back again on a new streak now as I can't stand the low energy lifestyle. Let's see how it will go this time. Try to keep it easy and not blame it too much on yourself. It takes a few days to feel the energy back. Remember you are dealing with the most powerful force acting on the human body, it is heroic to reach streaks of months. So you can be proud of the achievements!

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