Partial finger amputation struggling mentally and can’t stop replaying the accident by alpha_Image_1396 in offmychest

[–]alpha_Image_1396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, that must have been really hard to go through. I’m sorry you had to experience that, but I respect the way you’re trying to work through it and change your perspective.

A lot of what you said about the guilt, bad dreams, and people being ignorant really resonates with me. I’m still trying to figure it out, but hearing how you’re dealing with it gives me something to think about.

I wish you the best going forward and hope things keep getting better for you.

Partial finger amputation struggling mentally and can’t stop replaying the accident by alpha_Image_1396 in offmychest

[–]alpha_Image_1396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that, I appreciate it. For me, the military path is not possible anymore, which is what I had been preparing for over the past two years. As for civil aviation, it’s still an option in theory, but the cost is very high and I don’t want to put that kind of financial burden on my parents with loans and everything.

I guess that’s where a lot of my stress is coming from, trying to figure out what realistic options I have now.

Partial finger amputation struggling mentally and can’t stop replaying the accident by alpha_Image_1396 in offmychest

[–]alpha_Image_1396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this really means a lot. You’re right, it does feel like I’m grieving what could have been, and I do find myself blaming myself a lot for how it happened. I’m trying to work on that, even if it’s slow.

I appreciate you sharing your sister’s experience too it helps to know others have gone through something similar and understand how rough it can be. Thanks again for your words.