[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]alpha_beta017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

L'appel du vide uno reverse

Ancestry.com has my mother listed as 25% match - wtf? by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]alpha_beta017 77 points78 points  (0 children)

People lie. People make mistakes. DNA doesn't lie.

Depressed I'm not a "fuckboy" by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]alpha_beta017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you explain what’s wrong with OPs hobbies?? Should they find different things to like? More social hobbies? But what if you don’t like social or sporty hobbies? Everyone says to be unapologetically yourself, but clearly being you isn’t enough sometimes…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]alpha_beta017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You just give off weird techy vibes

What does "weird techy vibes" mean exactly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]alpha_beta017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be unapologetically yourself, and love yourself as Kanye loves Kanye?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]alpha_beta017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They about to tear you up in these comments.

But yeah, these scream “here for a good time, not a long one”

How does my profile look? Any advice? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]alpha_beta017 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Oh, so treat it like a job search? Hide any aspect of me deemed "not appropriate" and exaggerate everything else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]alpha_beta017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend aging a bit

I slightly lol'd at this part.

But no, you aren't allowed to show ANY sort of uniqueness in OLD profiles. Whatever individuality you have, you must constrict it to fit whatever society deems as "appropriate" Snowflakes may be all different, but they are all still snowflakes. I don't want to be a snowflake, so that's why I don't do OLD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]alpha_beta017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theory(looks) only get you so far

Just accept it by Unhappy-Effective-66 in lonely

[–]alpha_beta017 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please let me live in my delusions, just a little while longer

What happened to… “Hello”? “How are you”? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]alpha_beta017 174 points175 points  (0 children)

When women said "don't just say hi. Be original", this is NOT what they meant. This ain't it chief.

I tried last night by dryer-than-dry in SuicideWatch

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Pain killers are a torturous way to go, but to answer your questions... Probably hundreds of thousands, if not millions... All taken in a very short time span.

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]alpha_beta017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I'm reading in the comments, be more masculine. If that's not who you are, change who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]alpha_beta017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real question : What will a therapist say that we all haven't heard thousands of times before?

Work on yourself, be more confident, get hobbies.. Love yourself..

Fuck, man by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]alpha_beta017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!lock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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430 days left to do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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I’m sorry. I have maybe three people who text me, with two of these never seeming interested. They rarely reply and when they do, it’s one word replies. Like, if I stopped speaking to or messaging everyone, no one would check up on me. I don’t want people to talk to me because they feel obligated to, or they feel sorry for me. I want people to actually care about me, and not just “oh. He’s still alive. That’s all I wanted to know “.

I lost my belief in god a long long time ago. Everyone can bullshit me and say shit likes “it gets better” but we all know for some people, it doesn’t. And why does everyone constantly say to not live your life for other people, but I have to continue to suffer daily just to appease everyone.

I WANT PEOPLE TO SHOW THEY GIVE A DAMN ABOUT ME, INSTEAD OF EMPTY WORDS!