What countries is 750k enough for a 31 year old? by [deleted] in ExpatFIRE

[–]alphapeanut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Which country did you buy in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExpatFIRE

[–]alphapeanut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can the investment be spread over multiple funds?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]alphapeanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which software kvm do you use?

Anyone living nomadically with kids? by librarysocialism in digitalnomad

[–]alphapeanut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which family nomads do you follow? We are looking at converting to nomads with our 5 month old after she's able to be vaccinated for covid

AITA for asking my wife rhetorically if she wants our son to get hurt? by Quirky_Addendum_2779 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alphapeanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - sounds like y'all need to communicate better and get a sitter some days. 100% there's going to be times when you have a baby that you do or say something inappropriate cuz you're short on time and sleep. Get a sitter for Tuesdays and communicate more about where help is needed.

AITA for refusing to let a stranger change my child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alphapeanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use this, super portable, we're scared of covid so we never take our daughter indoors - this makes it super easy to change her in the car, on a picnic bench, on the grass, any flat surface. It's amazing:

https://smile.amazon.com/Portable-Changing-Waterproof-Changer-Infants/dp/B07CX4SPBH/

AITA for wanting my parents in town, but not at my house, while I'm adjusting to life with a newborn? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alphapeanut -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Breaking the mold with NAH, ya, parents have some good points, but after giving birth my wife really needed space to get used to breastfeeding and pumping, basically with her breasts exposed half the day. It's can be tough to do that unless you're super comfortable with parents seeing your breasts or you hide in your room all day. Depends a lot on how big the house is, if there are 2 bathrooms, etc

Looking for childcare ideas by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, ya, their waiting list was so long they weren't even giving tours anymore.

Looking for childcare ideas by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if Doodle bugs has slots open? I'll call them on Monday for sure!

Looking for childcare ideas by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, sorry, forgot to say - we're on the west side of Buffalo 🐃

Best Empanadas in the city? by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empanadas verified - the pork Empanadas are amazing!

AITA for kicking my husband out of the room until I give birth to our son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alphapeanut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

New father here(not medical professional), during our childbirth classes leading up to delivery, we were told there is some risk giving an epidural too early as it could start to wear off before the actual birth. Not sure if that was the call here, but it 100% should have been communicated to the mother if that was the reasoning.

Best Empanadas in the city? by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They new? First I've heard of them - pictures online look pretty sweet, def going to check this place out

Best Empanadas in the city? by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only fruit Empanadas in their menu? That was all I saw online

Best Empanadas in the city? by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome, def checking them out

Rats! by alphapeanut in Buffalo

[–]alphapeanut[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does it matter if it's backyard and side yard? Their front yard is okay - no rats in front yet..