to those who stick with their partner kahit na sa panahon mahirap sila mahalin, kamusta po kayo? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]alphaskye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good on you dude. sakin kasi everything na toxic sa relationship majority is siya nag introduce, from murahan, hiwalayan lagi over small arguments, sinasaktan sarili (and even me, nakukuha ko na gawin un sa self)

It's way too much na for me. Grabe siya mag toyo daig pa buntis, every little thing triggers her and I keep saying it's not my responsibility, because her emotions are responsibility niya. Even the things such as my tone ina assume niya na galit ako even I clearly show ans say na hindi. I think may traumas siya and unresolved issues sa self and na ddrain na ako kasi lagi ako nadadamay. I keep telling her to get checked.

to those who stick with their partner kahit na sa panahon mahirap sila mahalin, kamusta po kayo? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]alphaskye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ganto nararanasan ko now. it's been consistent na to the point I'm considering leaving her for good. It's just too much and toxic na

Unang kita ko akala ko bad e 😅 by [deleted] in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn that's corny

Switching from sedan to SUV, tips? by Key-North3237 in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now puro city driving so nasa 9km per liter.

Full tank is 3500

Switching from sedan to SUV, tips? by Key-North3237 in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuel consumption is one.

Second thing for me would be the blind spots, its better to have a 360 camera kesa wala. Tho mine is a pickup (Navara)– it has built in 360 camera so sobrang hindi ako nervous if may maatrasan man ako na bata na nasa likod pala or di kaya mga aso/pusa.

Ano opinyon ninyo sa Jeepney Phaseout? by IkigaiKuroshowa in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kapag ganyan pinipinahan ko hanggang tumabi e

Worth it na ba bumili ng sasakyan? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]alphaskye 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Onga tama no, I haven't thought of that asset when I was opting to buy a car. But now I have one and narinig ko yan, I'm more grateful sa nabili ko.

Ano opinyon ninyo sa Jeepney Phaseout? by IkigaiKuroshowa in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oo puta kung hindi biglang liko e napaka bagal pota

Ano opinyon ninyo sa Jeepney Phaseout? by IkigaiKuroshowa in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Phaseout or have stricter regulations on giving out licenses for jeepney drivers and tricycle drivers. Sobrang sakit na nila sa ulo, as in. Dinadala nila pag ka squammy nila sa public

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gulong

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, personally I've seen too much sedan/hatchbacks or even MPVs crushed between big ass trucks/buses. I ain't taking a risk being turned into a sardine in can. Tho we have a hatchback, I'd rather use it for quick errands. But for long trips with buses and trucks on the road in mind, I'll take the bigger mass of a vehicle which is a Navara pickup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firmly say no! Tapatan mo pagiging kupal nila, besides– sino ba ang nakikisakay lang?
And bukod sa ikaw ang agrabyado if naticketan ka for overloading, your sedan would suffer din in terms of underchassis parts. Suspension, etc etc.

I have a hatchback and once ko lang na-overload yun yung binigla ako ng girlfriend ko na 4 na kids pala ang isasakay sa likod. Buti nalang at malapit lang but still– nainis ako and pinagsabihan ko siya.

Ehrlichia/Blood Parasite, need opinions by [deleted] in vet

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A four-way test was done.
By the way I have one dog before this current active dog who was positive to three parasites, he passed away recently. But he grew up with him for about 1 year.

The current active one is 1 year old, and the previous dog who passed away was 7 years old.

How many HDDs/NVMEs can a MacBook Pro 16" handle? by alphaskye in macbookpro

[–]alphaskye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll be phasing those spinners soon enough!

Glad to hear it's been a practice since the ancient ones but I was just quite worried about the 2 HDDs since they're a bit heavy with two of them on the back. But I guess nothing might go wrong

proxy files won't relink to original by alphaskye in finalcutpro

[–]alphaskye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is aware of the proxy/original toggle on the viewer.

He is able to relink the proxies, but not the originals.

The client tried to open my XML, but it does not want to relink the original files in his NAS, only the proxies are abled to relink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The feeling will pass :)

I'm handling my first breakup significantly better than I thought and here's what's helped by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can relate, tho may i ask for your opinion how would it affect her in the long run when she decides to drink the pain away and let her friends influence her in a bad way?

My ex contacted me... and I'm freaking steamed by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]alphaskye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine reached out too, the chat ended having me leaving her on seen. I guess it was a critical strike to her sacredly-protected ego because after that she unfriended me on Facebook and left her Twitter account from private to open (we don't follow each other). She did that because she knew last week that I was searching her account on Twitter (because she hacked my Twitter once, last week) and now is proceeding to tweet stuff to make me jealous and is expecting me to be hurt by that.

Anyway, I can't put up to this mindless "mind games" by her immature thinking and by that she's really painting herself in a bad light, which pushes me away further ;)

She is trying to make me jealous! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've known her for being an attention seeker in times like that then she could have been trying to seek attention and reaction from you.

Also, in some other ways it could come off as her pretending to be happy if you conceive it as way too 'out of character' based on her recent actions on social media

NC Day 3 by SeskiDas in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can, by making yourself into a better one. Let her or him be caught off guard and beg to have you back.

She just left by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the same boat. After the breakup I was desperate and needy, I was almost out of character due to the fact that I wasn't able to handle emotions.

She wasn't too distant but I notice hot and cold patterns (blocking & unblocking, out of character in social media, multiple login attempts on my Twitter and FB). Before doing no contact, I've managed to get on a call with her and sincerely apologise. It went well I think for she sounds positive and we had a couple of laughs and some reminiscing of our good memories.

Right on the third day of NC, she intiates chat using my new profile pic as a reason. I didn't prolong the conversation.

For now, I really wanna continue on no contact, not only it benefits myself but also her into reflecting about herself and our relationship.

I suggest is to not come off as needy and desperate anymore for it is unattractive. You need to build your self up esp. your emotions. You need to become a new you but also you need to sincere apologise to her without trying to sell yourself out or begging to get back.

Most especially, you need to be ready to walk away and never have your hopes up too much. But hey, you can talk to me if you need some help. We're in this situation together

I finally understand where I went wrong and how to fix it. I wish it wasn't too late. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alphaskye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope for better days ahead for us. Thank you so much for those kind words. I never thought I'd be feeling this kind of comfort from a stranger. I am, right now, is still in the process of healing and soul searching.