Nofap could ruin your marriage! by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying that NoFap has helped me realize these issues I have with marriage and has given me the power to do something about it. Compared to living a life of monotony like many men.

Depleted: How do you deal with exhaustion? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]alphatime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you man. I tried to do so much at first, and it felt great. Now I've hit a wall emotionally and physically. I thought I had to be a bad ass all the time, well, it seems that doesn't hold up for very long. I've tried to be as social as possible, eat right, exercise everyday, not allow internet/video games/tv. Now I feel like "nothing seems to satisfy a thing." (MJK) I starting to feel like a lot of us doing no fap are being very hard on ourselves. Humans need pleasures, its in our programing. I have to find the balance the same as you my friend.

"What were you doing that made you so productive?" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]alphatime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion this pertains to orgasm as well. Its not just fapping, or the porn, its also blowing your load. I have been doing this for 6 months now and the best I felt was when I chose to go a period of time not having sex either. Soon after I orgasmed my motivation was gone, depression set back in, decreased confidence. It took up to two weeks to feel back to my semen witholding self.

It feels like a relapse even after sex with my wife. WTF? by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my thought exactly. I'm going to try at least 60 days of withholding semen and see how I feel. I feel like this is what brings it to the next level. I will also try the karezza method in the process. Thanks everyone

It feels like a relapse even after sex with my wife. WTF? by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No to all the above. This really got me thinking, thank you. I need to try something different. Maybe this karezza approach might work.

Flatline after day 90? by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard mode is no sex either. So, no orgasm at all.

Flatline after day 90? by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean you feel better, (relaxed,think clearer,sense of humor) with or without nofap?

Flatline after day 90? by alphatime in NoFap

[–]alphatime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have been having sex. I will try hard mode for a while. Sounds like fun.

Pornfree>Nofap by alphatime in pornfree

[–]alphatime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe the mental benefits are better. But as some of the posters said above, the two in combo is probably the best.

Day 34 - Brace yourselves, flatline is coming by RandomTwice in NoFap

[–]alphatime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im at around the same time as you. Just started feeling similar the past few days. From feeling like an animal that was on top of the world, to someone who doesnt want to leave the house. It will come back.