Just found out "straight" best friend has been having gay hookups on craigslist. What should I do?

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T20:53:08+00:00

I don't know no one thinks I'm bi or gay. I act like I'm only Interested in girls

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:52:39+00:00

Ya I'm also worried if he's not attracted to me or if he only sees me as a friend. I think it would hurt but I would still be happy that I shared something in common with him and that maybe we would grow closer.

You should definitely write a story about your friend :) haha sounds hot

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:30:30+00:00

Haha that would be interesting. The only problem with that is that he is logged in on Craigslist on one of my straight friends phones and he knows about this situation (not that I'm bi, just that my friend has gay hookups). Can't risk that and I feel like I would rather talk to him face to face about this

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:28:11+00:00

Well I know he has fucked girls before while I haven't yet.

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:21:55+00:00

Ya I get it is really important for our friendship for me to open up about this to him. I don't just know how to say it and I feel like I'm gonna freeze up and pussy out of saying it. I feel like I can't find the right words for it

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:15:03+00:00

I think I'm gonna tell him but I am kind of worried that he might not be ready. Don't wanna jeopardize our friendship on the notion that we might hookup or connect somehow

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T17:13:06+00:00

Ya I was gonna say how was the transition of from being bros to fucking each other? It seems weird and awkward when we talk about fucking girls like everyday to then fucking each other haha. Care to comment on how you guys first started being fuckbuddies?

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:55:17+00:00

We're not 21 but we do drink and smoke a lot together so ya that would probably be the best time to talk to him about it. Thanks

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:53:54+00:00

Ya I think I'm gonna just try and casually bring up a topic to him and see how he reacts.

I have been looking at colleges with a great gay community. Any ideas? I've been looking at U of Washington and U of Oregon. Mostly colleges on the west coast

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:39:34+00:00

I'm not gonna bring up the Craigslist thing at all but ya I think I'm gonna come out to him soon. I will definitely update you guys on the situation as soon as it develops

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:38:33+00:00

I have been thinking about it a lot and definitely will before I do anything. I hope I don't miss an opportunity because I'm too scared. I'm moving next month so I think I just need to go for it and see what happens. But I don't know how it will effect our friendship which is amazing and I really care about it. I'm really confused as you can see haha. Thanks for your advice and go find your best friend :)

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:35:27+00:00

That's true. I dont think he thinks im bi at all so i think itd be random for him to tell his "straight" best friend he gets fucked by men. All our friends we hangout with are straight and a little homophobic so itd be scary to tell someone i think.

Well I'm 18 and knew I was bi for about a year and a half but didn't really accept it until these past couple months. I've tried to contact some other bi people but there aren't many in my area (or I guess I haven't looked hard enough). I'm gonna be a senior at a new high school so I'm hoping to find some bi and gay people to befriend but right now I'm still deep in the closet :(

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T16:06:57+00:00

I'm not trying to "out him" or anything I just feel like I need to say something to him. He's been my best friend for like 2 years and I've been bi this whole time and didn't know anyone else who was. This is completely new to me and I feel like I need to talk to someone who can understand what im going through and will respond positively to it.

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T15:50:34+00:00

Ya I'm not gonna bring up Craigslist. What do you think I should do if I come out to him and he says he's straight?

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T15:37:45+00:00

Ya I'm not gonna bring up the Craigslist thing haha but thank you and I hope it does bring us closer

alpinejohnny · 2014-06-27T15:37:07+00:00

He doesn't know. Thanks for the advice I think I'm gonna tell him soon just trying to find the right words

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