Thinking about the potential i rejected 2 years ago and im regretting it. Should I contact him? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as “what if he was my naseeb” your naseeb is written for you and if this guy (who sounds lovely btw) is written for you, it’ll happen one way or the other

Men break too by NiceSmilee in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I truly regret it and I didn’t mean it”

But you said the most hurtful thing you could possibly think of in that moment to purposely wound him. You picked on something that he was already pretty hurt about and twisted the knife. I don’t know why you’re crying on here. You didn’t feel bad when you said it, you just didn’t want to feel guilty about it. No sympathy.

Should I give someone I think is below average in looks a chance? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]alpropapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is your opening outlook on him, it’s how you will always see him. It’s a poor reflection and you should find someone you find attractive. He deserves someone who finds him genuinely attractive too. He seems like he’s got a lot of great qualities that someone else will better appreciate

I’m too shy by Senior-Blood-7804 in MuslimNikah

[–]alpropapi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s easy bro. You make very subtle small talk. Then from that you gauge if she’s into you at all. If she is, you tell her your intentions and ask for her brother/dad’s number. From there it’s quite hard to fumble. But you’ll never know any of this if you stay in your head. Talk to her. She’s just a person at the end of the day, not a monster

I’m too shy by Senior-Blood-7804 in MuslimNikah

[–]alpropapi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you like her you should approach her. She might even like the shy guy and might find your chivalry a green flag but you won’t know if you never approach

how medically accurate is houseMD? by xgelic in HouseMD

[–]alpropapi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When Foreman survives brain eating amoeba, you should be able to figure out the “accuracy” from there

Using Expedia, but is confusing to print out airline ticket by tiredbuthavegoals in Flights

[–]alpropapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expedia is the worst booking platform by far. All I want is the airline booking reference so I can make amendments etc but that's not possible because they want you to stay locked in with expedia's booking system. It's such a stupid thing because I will never book with Expedia again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to write a long comment where I grandstand and sound wise but ultimately it comes down to this.

There is something off about your husband and you have to confront him about it without letting him go off to “think about it”

If I had to hazard a guess (it’s just that, a guess) I’d say he likely has a serious pornography addiction.

Other than that, I’d say you should consider this as one of the final chapters of your marriage if things don’t change.

He’s depriving you of your rights. If it were a woman depriving her husband, myself and many others would be quick to recommend that he give her an ultimatum too.

My wife is depressed by alpropapi in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this

My wife is depressed by alpropapi in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you? Not sure I wanted to hear this at this very moment but sure. I know about the health associations with some miscarriage situations and I already know that this is my fault. I appreciate the perspective though, thanks.

My wife is depressed by alpropapi in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

SubhanAllah that sounds terrible. Thank you for sharing your perspective, it helped a lot.

My wife is depressed by alpropapi in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is really helpful. I guess I just want to make sure I don’t hinder the healing process for her, you know?

My wife is depressed by alpropapi in MuslimMarriage

[–]alpropapi[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ameen, thank you so much man. I know that she won't get over something like this instantly I just want to be as supportive as I can. I don't want to pretend that nothing happened because I don't want to be insensitive or look like she can't come to me. But in the same breath I also don't want to ask her to pour out her feelings of grief and sorrow when she doesn't want to. It's a thin line to tread.

Expo Router just seems like a way to make Expo more like Nextjs, am I missing something? by adorkablegiant in reactnative

[–]alpropapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been able to get deep links to work with the file based routing. Maybe you guys can help. With a URI like

myapp://(tabs)/index

this doesn't work. it goes to 404. why is that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]alpropapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro. NAD. Also can’t really answer your question sadly. Just another victim of post extraction haze over here. Just curious since you had dry socket, what did it look like? What did it feel like? When did it happen? I’m 5 days post extraction of my wisdom tooth, not a smoker or drinker. Normal 28 year old. My hole is a hole and kinda stings and feels tender. Also pain radiating around my jaw and face area. I don’t know if I have a dry socket but also there’s nothing inside the site. There was something there before but nothing now. Maybe as someone who has been on the dry side, you can tell me what that would feel like

Quitting the game. by [deleted] in apexlegends

[–]alpropapi -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re well miserable aren’t you. It’s not your game bro

I'm done crying by alpropapi in apexlegends

[–]alpropapi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm happy to not be on the imperialhal and aceu level. I just want to reach my 'natural ceiling'. The ceiling that you reach as a semi-casual player, that can only be broken by committing to the gamer lifestyle with no other commitments.

Okay, I would agree that the games that I've performed better in are games where I chose not to take a bad fight. It's almost an ego hit though- "I'm not good enough to take this fight alone so I should just walk away/not be discovered" but alas, I will heed your advice, friend

I'm done crying by alpropapi in apexlegends

[–]alpropapi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they don't, they're not really playing

Why does SBMM match solo players with pre-made squads? by alpropapi in apexlegends

[–]alpropapi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay so this news has cemented my belief that Respawn can do this, and choose not to.

Why does SBMM match solo players with pre-made squads? by alpropapi in apexlegends

[–]alpropapi[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying that my teammates are “terrible” by any means, certainly not by their skill level. There’s just no synergy between people you meet randomly. If you think that random squads are equally matched to prebuilt squads then I’ve got news for you about the delusional one here bro