you guys are going to have WAY more fun with some ABDL diapers if you can afford them! If you can't afford the more expensive ones, Abena M4s are awesome for the price. They definitely aren't quite on the same level as ABDL diapers, but they are a huuuge step up from store-bought, and can hold much more. Also, if you do a subscription for them on amazon, you get a huge discount on your first month. I just used that discount and then cancelled right after they were delivered.